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I’m a 25m who lives in a small city. I moved about a year ago for a girl (ended up breaking up with me) and job.

I live alone, I do all activities alone pretty much, shopping, dinner, I join club sports and meet people that way. But the teams I join I’m always an after thought to hangout with outside of the league like “oh man we should have invited you! Sorry”

Then in other groups I’m the only single friend. And it’s a weird dynamic cause they barely hangout outside of their coupling.

And then I’ve had “friends” who keep me in limbo. Like we hang and they complain about their life. I just listen and ask if I can do stuff to help. Then they turn and go actually I’m not enjoying hang wi

Hey all, just wanted to provide an update/advice for college people interested in STEM.

18m 2019 - lab tech intern 13.50$ an hour/summer ferry job 20$ an hour

19m 2020 - part time system admin 17.50$ / summer ferry job 22$ an hour

20m 2021 - Lead of techs and interns 19.50$ / Helpdesk support for school 16.00$ an hour / summer ferry job 25$ an hour

21m 2022 - lead of engineers 21.50$ / internship with telecom 40$ (30-40 hours a week for 8 weeks)

22m 2023 - lead of engineers 21.50$ / Scholarship money 2,000$ a month

23m 2024 - IT Specialist 73k (got all the certs i could)

24m 2025 - IT Cybersecurity Specialist 80k and now Cyber security Analyst 120k

For all those that do read

Hey all,

Was hoping to get some people’s opinions. I’m a 23M with 1.5 years of federal service. I got the government job through scholarship as I worked extremely hard in college and still do. I had a 1 year probation period which I completed in August. I have been applying to higher paying federal jobs since August. And ended up getting one with a different DoD organization. I accepted a few weeks ago before the climate started to change drastically. My first day is Monday and I will be starting a probation period of 1 year. My future supervisor keeps assuring me everything will be okay but I struggle to believe that.

My last day at my current position is Friday and I just got a new apa

Hey everyone,

As the title states I am fearing I am ready or not ready for the exam. I am taking it tomorrow morning.

Up till today I was scoring 85-90 on practice exams (learnzapp) and for the mike chapel book around 70-80. But today I have been scoring 60-70.

I have a 4 year degree, been working in IT for 2 years, and read the cissp book by Mike Chappell taking notes. Also watched an 8 hour video on YouTubers.

My worst domain is IAM. And the practice tests have taken me around 1-1:30.

Any advice for remember saml, oauth, openid connect or Kerberos would be great and much appreciated!

Hey all, I am hopefully getting a job at Aberdeen proving grounds soon. I currently live in Wilmington Delaware and work in Philadelphia.

I’m looking to move closer to Aberdeen for said job. I’m hoping to keep my rent anywhere between 1500-1800. My commute currently is 30 minutes and I’m hoping to keep that but willing to go a little bit further.

I really want activities and to be able to meet people. Currently I live in an apartment in burbs as a 23 year old. It’s extremely frustrating to meet people my age as they all live in Philly or northwest of Philly.

I have been looking and believe canton Baltimore, bel air, harve de grace, Towson, white marsh are all places to look. But I’m hav

Hey all thanks for reading this post.

It’s been about 3 years since I was going hard at the gym. I restarted 2-3 months ago. I have gone around 50 times in that period. I do 6 days a week 4 day strength training and 2 days cardio. I have seen significant improvements in how much I can lift.

My diet is really good(besides a few snacks/a meal a week). Working on increasing protein dramatically.

The one question I have is when will there be visual results for others to notice? I know it’s supposed to be about 6 months. But then I watch YouTube videos about 90 day challenges and people can change drastically in that window. It’s a little discouraging.

But I am very much committed to my g

‘23M’ ‘23F’ Did I mess up? If so please provide any advice on how you would handle situation.

So I’m a ‘23M’ and my ex gf is ‘23F’. We were dating for 4 years. She was extremely good to me. Bought clothes, made me laugh traveled a bunch to see me. I also did the same and we really worked well together. But we had moved together and then had to live apart over the last year. And it was our first time in the “real world”. She wanted to be in a position where you can’t move around. I wanted to work in the same place for a few years and then move south till w e find the right home.

Additionally, the spark started fading and my attractiveness to her faded. I do very much love her. But I wante

I M23 have been dating a girl F23 for almost 4 years. Lately we haven’t been doing so hot…after college around a little over a year ago I moved to a city and wanted her to join me. She didn’t. Then she said she’d move in may then didn’t. Now in august she wants to move but I have to commit. By commit meaning it’s not marriage but essentially marriage. I’m not ready for that especially with this year of distance. Also if she does move she doesn’t want to move for 2-3 years and idk if I can promise that because I work within tech and kinda have to jump around.

Additionally, she wants to become a cop. Which I can’t really support because She’s around 100ibs and 5”2 with no street smarts. She’