* Wife had an EA with someone long distance, turned physical. Caught the early EA texts over her shoulder and approached her. She denied it was anything and said she stopped contact.
* She later said she was unhappy in relationship, said she was moving out (and she did) and going to file after we sell house. Before she moved, it turned physical (she doesn’t know I saw those texts). I have pics of the texts talking about the act.
* AP’s STBX has been updating her Facebook with obvious marital issue quotes over the last few months and I feel so bad for her. I’m not sure if they’re officially divorced.
* I don’t know if it was my wife triggered his divorce. But it’s clear my wife and
New here. I stumbled upon this (very long scientific) article and oddly it comforted me and helped validate my feelings that this wasn’t necessarily all me.
Has anyone gone through this almost obsessive quest to diagnose your wayward spouse? Perhaps it was hormones/perimenopause, or maybe she’s undiagnosed bipolar or BPD, or hey wait, I just found out about covert narcissism and several articles check all the boxes! It’s almost exhausting and I’ve run out of internet I think. At the end of the day she made a decision.
Is anyone’s wife rewriting history or “haven’t been happy in 20 years.” Not trying to invalidate her feelings but she has been sending me on a wild goose chase trying to weigh things from 20 years ago vs how much of this is hormones. Of course I don’t say this to her face. I mean every couple has its struggles, and she may internalize more but I’d say our relationship has been great up until lately. Been fighting like hell for her these last few years, mostly staying patient and understanding, giving space but man dropping stuff on me from 20 years ago has been brutal.
I’m about 24 hours post op, was prescribed oxycodone 325mg which I took once after the op and once at night time. This morning I feel pretty OK, a little tender but I would like to test the waters and stop taking pain relievers but my wife said I may want to stay on top of the pain because apparently the nurse said it’s hard to “catch up” to the pain if it escalates. The nurse said over the counter meds during day and then switch to oxy at night.
This was a scalpel incision. I know everyone is different but was just curious how folks did. Definitely still sitting on my butt and icing, no plans of doing anything strenuous.
Booked the ✂️ appointment. I’ve already procreated twice, we don’t want any more. Early 40s. But then I got to wondering what my batting average is before go I sit on the bench. How much production am I actually halting here? You see the fertility/age graph and the numbers plummet past like 35. I thought I read comparisons with fertility and life expectancy, prob a dumb social media post not backed up by science. But the gears started turning and figured this is my last time to find out.
What if there’s an apocalypse and it’s just me, a urologist and .. I dunno.. Alexandra Daddario and she’s all like “welp you gotta get a reversal so we can recreate humanity”. And then I’m like “well acco
Duration of complaint: 2 years with symptoms changing.
Any existing relevant medical issues: No
Current meds: None
Had a very minor fender bender about 2 years ago and maybe a few months, parking lot someone hit me from behind going very slowly. May not be relevant but figured I’d mention it.
I’ve been having arm/shoulder pains in different formats. First it was my left forearm, felt like tennis elbow. Both arms but left hurt the most. Two years ago Doc sent me to PT but after 3 sessions I lost hope, maybe helped a little but not much. Then I got some shoulder pain in what feels like
Location (Geographic and on body): elbow, forearms, maybe neck
Any existing relevant medical issues (if any)
Current medications (if any)
Back in early February I decided to pick up the sticks again and practice drumming (on a pillow) while watching TV having not done it in a while. Some drummers do this to train their muscles better since the pillow doesn’t allow the stick to bounce and recruits your muscles. I could tell the next day that I overdid it since they were sore unlike anything I’ve done at the gym... so I stopped since then (just a hobby not a career). Fast forward to now and the pai
Over 5 months ago I started having internal hemorrhoids. Pretty bad, uncomfortable to sit/stand/do anything. Decided to listen to my doc and take a month off the gym, yoga, Pilates and do nothing. That seemed to help, so after the month ended I started back up at the gym and yoga/Pilates and low-and-behold they start flaring a bit. I’m not power lifting here.. and I don’t think I’m holding my breath or channeling pressure to my bottom. They usually have a small flare after bathroom visits but now they’re back to being uncomfortable. Feel like I’ve done all the tricks I can possibly do listed on webmd (sitz, creams, quick bathroom breaks, no straining).