I suffer from performance anxiety and my gf is a strong anxious over-thinker and unfortunately has been stressed for over a year by life happenings unrelated to us.
We have been long distance for 2 years (seeing each other many times per year) but the relationship is really solid and from the summer we will be back together.
Sex has never been easy, I was coming from a rough patch and anxious and she had some limitations that made it more difficult for me and her anxiety fed mine.
It took me a while to get into a better shape but when I was then long distance and her external issues that causes her a lot of stress started, thus complicating things to have reliable frequent sex.
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