FastSoupMan

Guys+Girls that like to top 😅 and male/female trans people 🥰 are welcome to dm for this!

Bonus points if you want a long term dynamic/relationship where I actually feel cared about. Headscratches + cuddles pls🫠

Be aware I am 6'4, it's been an issue before xd

So I'm a factory operative, and we can be assigned to a few different things, one of those things is packing, which needs the most amount of people

I try my best, I really do, I have clubbed thumbs though so I can't always pick stuff up quickly/gotta chase it to an edge with 4 fingers. It's just frustrating that a couple of people are 2× faster and others are much faster. I'm the slowest, unless someone new is training (who'll quickly be better than me and tell me about it)

I feel like I'll never progress because I must seem lazy, and I don't tell anyone about having brachydactyly type d, pretty sure I'd just be fired for not disclosing it to them... still the requirement is that you pack

I (25m) want a girlfriend. They say you shouldn't try to find a girlfriend at a bar anymore because it's creepy. Trying to approach girls IRL is a thing of the past now I guess. So okay I'm fine with that, I'll use the relatively new method of using dating apps

So I fill out my bumble profile, I go on there a few times a week, swipe away... no luck.

You know what the other option for talking to a new girl is? "Content creators" that sell dudes with an n, and I've vowed never to use them or get sucked into that way of living

So I'm just going to work, going to the gym, trying to be the best version of myself I can possibly be and all I want to do is pour all my time and love into a new wo

I read on the pensions regulator website that my employer must let me join the workplace pension scheme during the postponement period if I ask, am aged 16-74 and earn over £120 per week, which I do. The goverment website echos the same thing. They can postpone it but if I ask to join - which I have - they cannot refuse

I just emailed to ask and got a reply saying "unfortunately you can't do that for 3 months"

I don't want to kick up a fuss incase they cut my hours but surely I'm entitled to this??

Any advice appreciated, cheers

Hey I was thinking about getting life insurance to cover expenses/funeral because it's not that expensive for me. It's around £8 a month for a £200k payout

But then I was thinking, it counts as part of my estate upon death right? And then SFE can probably take that money from my estate as I owe them?

Then I read about getting it written in trust to avoid it getting yoinked but I don't know how to identify policies that are written in trust or how to get a policy written in trust. Searching on the web leads to a ton of life insurance ads which is fairly frustrating lol so I came here to ask, thanks :)

I went to a group interview with 2 others. You get in and sit in the waiting room with them. They say nothing (maybe I should have spoken to them). Then you go in. One of them is obnoxiously talkative and will try to push your buttons. You pause and they'll say "ooop he's thinking!" And laugh at you. They'll talk over you and cut you off

The other person will be very experienced but otherwise seem normal. They'll make jokes and lighten the mood. They don't get harassed by the first candidate at all

The interviewer is an area manager

I feel so stupid for not realizing it was a setup. The talkative guy said he had 6 kids, and that's not going to be real, or the probability will be very low.

I've been plateauing for around 5 weeks now, 198-196lbs. I'm in kcal deficit and working out. I want to be at 180lbs, lean-ish. I'm getting there, recomp is working, my arms/legs/chest/abs all look better.

I'm just... pissed off the scale isn't moving?? I know muscle is denser than fat so it's probably that and my TDEE is rising with muscle mass so not only am I losing fat as I gain muscle but I'm also losing fat at an accelerating rate

I'm just not used to the "deprivation of results" now coming from the scale. That was a big-big source of my motivation. This week I decided to increase my kcal intake from 1600-1700 to around 2,000 (I'm a 6'4" guy) because if I'm not seeing results on the

In early November I had been on a big calorie restriction for 4 months so I was pretty weak but also still kinda heavy so push ups were impossible. Now I'm a bit lighter + stronger I can do 10 pushups, take a breather, do 10 more etc. And I stop at 5 sets, same with sit ups so today I did 50 push ups and 50 sit ups total

It's been going so well and I'm really happy with this progress!

I'm still restricting calories but my body still has a good mass of fat to eat up so as long as I continue making gains I'm going to carry on this trajectory

Just gonna add that Fage 0% Fat Yogurt is very good, 80kcal for 15.5g of protein is a crazy good ratio imo!