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My boyfriend (28M) and I (30F) have been together almost a year. He’s affectionate in a lot of ways — buys me flowers, plans fun activities, gives me little gifts, and makes time for me. But when it comes to actual dates — nice dinners, dressing up, a planned romantic evening — he avoids it. I’ve asked, I’ve cried about it, I’ve explained how much it means to me, and we’ve been on maybe two real dates in a year.
For context, I’m his first real girlfriend in about seven years — before me it was mostly casual, non-serious stuff.

One big event that happened two months ago was my birthday, and it was a time for him to really show romance and affection towards me, and he really dropped the b

29(F) 28 (M) ok so my boyfriend and i have been dating for 3 months, but physical for 6 months. i asked HIM to be my boyfriend 3 months ago, even though he had really only taken me on one official date. since we started dating he has only taken me on 2 more dates, and has been at my house pretty much every day (i live close to his work).

for context: i work 2 jobs, full time at an IVY league school, and 2 internships.

He works one job 5 days a week

he is VERY sweet, patient, funny, and attentive and always asks how my day was, remembers cute things about me, and gets me flowers every couple of weeks.

when he’s over and isn’t working he just plays video games all day, and doesn’t have

So my boyfriend (at the time, he is obviously now my ex) got kicked out of his school for sexually assaulting another girl (while we were dating) and the girl he assaulted is a really good friend of mine. after the assault a lot of women started asking me if i had ever been assaulted by him, and i hadn’t.

However, a few years before we started dating he told me in confidence that he had a prior rape charge from his old school and was kicked out. he swore the girl was crazy and he didn’t actually rape her. I fully believed him, until this current assault charge.

Now, I am obviously extremely hurt by the fact that he assaulted someone while we were seeing eachother, so i have been telling t

I am a [28 F] and my boyfriend is a [29M] we have been in a relationship for 5 years .

So my boyfriend decided a few years ago to start acting. I have a lot of friends in theater, and have been able to go to them for advice.

We had been dating 4 years before he got into acting and he’s always been SUPER jealous (I’m not the jealous type) and me being around men is like a big deal for him unless he knows them.

so anyway; he starts at this acting school and tells me that a part of the acting process is doing intimate work with your partners, and this includes other women. He tells me that he usually doesn’t do any stuff, and it’s just a kiss on the lips or whatever. We establish my firm bo

I am a [28 F] and my boyfriend is a [29M] we have been in a relationship for 5 years .

So my boyfriend decided a few years ago to start acting. I have a lot of friends in theater, and have been able to go to them for advice.

We had been dating 4 years before he got into acting and he’s always been SUPER jealous (I’m not the jealous type) and me being around men is like a big deal for him unless he knows them.

so anyway; he starts at this acting school and tells me that a part of the acting process is doing intimate work with your partners, and this includes other women. He tells me that he usually doesn’t do any stuff, and it’s just a kiss on the lips or whatever. We establish my firm bo

Ok so me ‘33FM’ and my ex boyfriend ‘34M’ dated for about 8 years. It was a bit of a rocky relationship and started pretty rough. I don’t like his family all that much, and they’ve made it clear they don’t like me (His family is very cookie cutter and I am a bit more eccentric) so I was never really around them much. We dated off and on for those 9ears, and decided to break up, and I moved out of his place. Months went by and we ended up rekindling our romance. It was a dream. We decided to go to couples therapy, and to make it work. We realized we never actually prioritized healing in our relationship and decided it was time to actually start fresh and work towards marriage and kids. We had

alright i need your help. I am a ‘28F’ and need advice on if i should try to make things work with my ‘29M’ boyfriend of 6 years. Last year he decided he wanted to enroll in acting school and pursue his long awaited dream of being an actor (Keep in mind we live together) and started going to classes. During his first year he introduced me to all of his new acting friends, and all was going well! (except that he would have like full on sex scenes with people in class, but would get mad at me if i was in the same room as boys i’ve dated or even kissed lol)

however, when he started his second year in school i noticed that he immediately stopped bringing me around his new set of friends (the g

alright i need your help. I am a ‘28F’ and need advice on if i should try to make things work with my ‘29M’ boyfriend of 6 years. Last year he decided he wanted to enroll in acting school and pursue his long awaited dream of being an actor (Keep in mind we live together) and started going to classes. During his first year he introduced me to all of his new acting friends, and all was going well! (except that he would have like full on sex scenes with people in class, but would get mad at me if i was in the same room as boys i’ve dated or even kissed lol)

however, when he started his second year in school i noticed that he immediately stopped bringing me around his new set of friends (the g