FrameWalker

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u/starting_oveRP just put out a great post on using sexual jokes to gauge a girl's sexual interest. I'd like to remind everyone about the importance of declaring your sexual availability and relationship unavailability early and adamantly. Lewd sexual jokes, along with as many indicators you can provide that you're not looking to settle down will go a long way in setting up a healthy casual sex dynamic. If done correctly, the girl will know not to catch feelings, or hold back her sexuality, and will provide you moderately less drama than otherwise expected.

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The Intro
The idea behind using little sexual touches, jokes, and innuendo is solid. You commun

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There's this story about pirating journal articles. It mentions a female champion. Article make no mention of a recent attempt by Aaron Schwartz at the same task. While Aaron was harassed charged with crimes punishable by decades in prison and ultimately took his own life, the woman is praised and is making ground.

Embrace the unfairness of gender dynamics and harness young women to do your bidding.

I've been visiting the Tampa area for New Years. If you're in the 21-35 age range and like barhopping downtown St Petersburg is a great choice. I'd avoid Ybor city, downtown Tampa, Clearwater, and the scattered bars close to the beach.

If you're in the area and know more please post. Coming from a college town with tons of male competition I've found the young women in St Petes highly receptive.

Sometimes I find myself approaching in a low energy state, and sarcastic replies come off as moderately insulting rather than playful. Same with disqualifiers and other rapport breaks. It will trigger several comments. What are some good responses?

1. You don't know how to talk to girls
2. I don't like your attitude
3. You don't have any sisters, do you?

Calibrating properly would be preferable, but how do you turn things around?

A plate has been behaving pretty well overall - instant responses to texts, initiating meetups, and available on my schedule. Whenever she's on her period and before sex I get bjs. Her first bj was very poor. I've been teaching her what I like, and shes gotten better.

Last night she was having trouble with her gag reflex, and I got turned off. After a break I had her use her hands and finished on her face.

Its about 5 months in, she hasn't asked what are we, but often makes comments about how many girls I must be seeing and assumes marks on my body are hickeys. I always agree and amplify or ignore.

What would you do when a plate doesn't like your cum in her mouth anymore / stops being in

tldr; A simple example of tinder with a yes girl. She puts up with intermittent tinder texting - 3 week delay and 4 month delay after getting number. We have a seemingly bad first date. 2nd date is a las tminute booty call to watch a movie. I overcome token LMR by very slowly escalating - being careful not to make any sudden leaps that would scare her and no real freezeouts - just subtle suspension of physical touch.

Thanks for all of the helpful field reports and suggestions. Keep them coming. There are patterns that work, and it's helpful to see working models.

I started this with an opener one of you suggested. Let me know if it was you.

Oct 26 Me: I hope you want me for

To achieve your goals you must form a clear picture of outcomes inside your mind. I'm not talking about some pseudoscience bullshit where you "imagine" what you want to create, and it magically appears while you sit on your ass. All action you take is preceded by a quick simulation in your mind - could be visual/sensory/otherwise. If you're a musician, a dancer, a powerlifter, a surgeon, or a light-saber wielding fedora wearing master baiter the process is the same.

Every complex task and achievement is preceded by imagery. You have a mental map that lights up your brain, and through some semiconscious effort you move towards what you imagine. At mastery your subconscious moves you effort

The past two weeks have been focused on jumping back into cold approach. I'm writing about only the most notable interactions from the past weekend.

Friday
Made several approaches with wingman. Screened many of the girls through physical contact ranging from touching their arms and legs, high 5s, holding their hands, and playing with hair. No girls DTF yet. I think I'm warmed up - but in reality I'm still pretty stiff.

Wing has pulled a girl from a set so now I'm rolling solo. I open two rather attractive girls with "Hi I'm Framewalker". Start general chit-chat -

Me: "how do you know each other? " Her: "We're lesbians." (shit-test)

From here on out I crash and burn. It's a

One of my plates put up LMR every other time we had sex. “I don’t want to have sex tonight/I’m on my period” etc. I would always smile relax, and get ready for sleep. She would immediately jump on top of me and ask me why I was going to sleep before taking my clothes off. The ease with which this happened eventually triggered a huge shit test from her, about 6 weeks into the relationship. It’s probably the biggest shit test I ever passed.

Her: “Sorry we’re not having sex tonight”
Me: “Sex is not a big deal”
Her palms get sweaty and after a while she starts rambling but basically is hinting that she’s afraid I’m one of those guys that will never be exclusive. She states "I feel lik

Take care of your face. My routine

Morning:

1. Hot shower - do not wash face to leave oil on face for shaving
2. Shave using badger brush and lathering cream
3. Exfoliating scrub
4. Moisturizer

Throughout the day drink plenty of water, and try to get as much sun as possible in the summer months

Caution: The sun will badly damage your skin. Commenters are pretty adamant about this. Tan does look nice, but be very careful.

I use:

St Ives Aprictor Scrub for exfoliation

Pacific shaving company's shaving cream and moisturizer

Schick Hydro razors

Extra hygiene tips: always shower after working out - often no shampoo/minimal bodywash

• Regularly change sheets/p

A core guiding redpill principle is that women are the gatekeepers to sex, and men are the gatekeepers to commitment. This is a strong rule of thumb for men, and it’s an excellent wakeup call for Recovering Nice Guys, and those just swallowing the pill. Logically it should follow that if a man becomes physically attractive and wealthy enough he can trade his commitment for sex, but that’s not how it works. The trade is not commitment for sex, the trade is emotions for sex.

It’s not being attractive that makes you valuable, it’s how your attractiveness makes her feel. It’s not that you are super wealthy, it’s how that wealth makes her feel. You can instill a sense of well being and comple

Rational male has a section on plate theory that is useful:

Women communicate COVERTLY, with gesture, with looks, with veiled meanings – you have to communicate your intent to be non-exclusive COVERTLY. Never OVERTLY tell a woman you’ve got other plates than her spinning. Allow her to discover this by your mannerisms, your behaviors, and definitely by your availability to her. Create value through scarcity, don’t be so available to her, but just enough to keep her interest and allow her mind to consider that maybe you have other options. Even when you don’t, fomenting this anxiety is a VERY useful tool for you while you do get more plates to spin. Even the ambient confidence that come