Ok so at least part of this is on me (will explain below) but a lot of it just feels like completely unreasonable expectations.
I’ve always heard about Dungeons & Dragons but never really had any interest until watching Stranger Things, after which I fell down the YouTube rabbit hole learning about the game. I was curious to try it and found out when I took my new job (#burgerlife) that my coworkers have a campaign. They said that they’re always happy to help new people get into the hobby (which in retrospect feels like false advertising IMO) but I was so excited that I probably missed some red flags with the group and especially the DM.
So here’s where I bear some of the blame: I did make