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r/BreakUps•

I know being possessive is not a good trait but my ex loved when I called her "mine". Unfortunately I even got a tattoo that reads "My (her pet name)". But after 5 years she said we are too different and she wanted to date other people. During limbo phase she informed me she had been dating and didn't see any hope for us. Why does it feel some other guy or guys stole her from me?

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r/BreakUps•

I don't like being alone. I don't have a lot of friends. My ex was my best friend2. I began dating and met a couple great ladies. One is cool, fun to hang out with but there's something affecting my physical attraction to her. The other I am super attracted to her but it is going really slow and I need more attention. I feel I need to just be with the cool, fun one since I need a buddy to replace my ex best friend.

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r/Cruise•

I cancelled a Med cruise last year and need to book cruise by the end of April and sail by the end of the year. Has anyone had any luck getting this extended? Can I change passengers later if I am not certain who can go with me? Can I use credit to purchase alcohol, excursions packages?

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She ended our 5 year relationship in January somewhat suddenly as she said we are too different and should date others. Of course, I think she had begun to get emotionally connected with someone. We were best friends but if I am honest with myself I felt her pushing me away for awhile. Even when we were trying to figure things out that friendship was still really good then she suddenly became cold and emotionless towards me.

Then as we were winding down some financial matters a few weeks ago, her last texts were somewhat cordial. I would like to think she has been missing me, my kids, our friendship and spending holidays together. I really thought I would get at least a "Happy Easter" t

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r/Bumble•

Both girls have gone on multiple dates.

Girl A - moving very slow but I really like her. She is not a texter and we might have a handful of texts during the week. We talk on the phone once or twice and usually see each other for a weekend evening date. She's an hour away so it's hard to see each other during the week.

Girl B - a lot of daily texting. It's nice. I feel like we are connecting via texts...lots of banter, sexual tones to the texts. She lives closer and have gone out during the week and weekends.

I am more attracted to girl A and really would love the relationship to develop but she's just not into texting/chatting too often. She seems interested in me but the infreque

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r/BreakUps•

We took a "break" last summer. After a few weeks of sorting things out, I went no contact and after 2 days she texted me "I am missing you". We eventually got back together until she ended things 12/26 after 5 years together. We were dealing with separating some financial matters and her last texts to me were much more cordial that any texts the prior couple months. I keep thinking she is missing me and will reach out to me.

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BU from long distance relationship was late December, somewhat out of the blue. I live alone much of the time (kid in college, other kid with mom half the time) and in a city I just moved to and don't know many people. I get lonely.

I got on an dating app. I am taking it slow but have been seeing and talking to 3 ladies I am interested in. Not to be crass but I have a mental ranking on how I am connecting with them, attracted to them, etc. The number 2 lady has been distant lately. I got a text to call her and she said while I am an "amazing" guy she recently connected with a neighbor guy and wants to see where that goes. I totally respect her decision but it still hurts to have a wo

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r/BreakUps•

My ex dumped me on 12/26 and said we are too different (this is after 5 years) and we should date other people. We spent a month in limbo until she told me she is dating other guys and doesn't see any hope for us. We have some financial matters to clear up and she sent me a text asking about those. I responded and then she thanked me and said "hope all is well". It was the first cordial text she has sent since she officially ended things.

Is she just trying to be nice? Is she feeling a bit guilty and wants me to reaffirm that I am not angry with her for dropping me to date other guys? Does she want me to reach out and start cordial communications again with the possibility of seeing whe

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r/Bumble•

My premium membership ended 2 weeks ago. I have gotten one match since then. Before I was getting a few matches a week. Does the app bury my profile being unpaid member?

Equally as frustrating is a match messaged me after 3 weeks of nothing wanting to grab a drink. I replied in nice fashion agreeing to meet for a drink and got ghosted again.

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I am ok but just a brief sense of anxiety. We are basically no contact but working thru a financial matter. She lives 2 hours away in a different state. She signed the loan paperwork at a bank near her and the bank sent the paperwork to a branch near me. When I went to sign the paperwork, her name and signatures were on many of the forms. For some reason it was weird seeing her signature and this random thought popped in my head. She has very likely already slept with a new guy or guys when she signed the paperwork. It just felt icky to me.

I really have no desire to see her in person for this same reason. Although she didn't cheat I feel like she betrayed me by ending things so a

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