InvisibleAngst

Hey, so I have just reached the two week stage of post op, going in for a bandage change today. I found that after maybe a week I didn;'t really need painkillers anymore and that the pain I was feeling is relatively similar to how it was before. Or just normal. is this typical? I will defo take painkillers before my bandage change but just wanted to know other peoples views.

Hey, so I have been drawing for a long time. I usually draw from my imagination, with some refs and photos of what im swwing in my mind. I always have done this but I want to level up my art, because I struggle somwtimes and then don't draw for ages. I think the best way is by leaening the foundarions of anatomy, perspective, and composition. I think the first two are maybe more essential at the moment.

For anatomy, I have been mostly doing timed gesture drawings. The outcome is sometimes very cursed (lol). I also draw over references to familiarise myself with drawing the body parts. However, when it comes to breaking down the skeleton and proportions, I get bored. It makes drawing fee

I (28) don't strongly want children and I don't think having children will be something I can do well. I have too much work to do on myself and I feel like I wouldn't be a good mum. My bf (30) of 9 years told me 2 years ago he did not want kids at all and it made me sad, and idk why because i have never strongly wanted kids but sometimes i see videos of kids and think they are cute or see how some guys are with their kids and think its nice but being a parent is life long and stressful, some people genuinely regret having kids and I rather regret not having them.

I just don't know why I am so emotional about it? I think maybe i expected it to be part of my life and I thought about it but I

I have a large bunion on my left foot that i have had since I was a child. It doesn't cause a lot of pain but the lack of symmetry in my feet is a problem becauee trying to accommodate my bunion causes planter fasciatis in my other foot cauee shoes are too wide.

I am hypermobile so I have to get a fusion in the middle of my foot to prevent relapse. My surgeon said it has a 1 in 4 change to put me in a worse physical situation than I am now, that I might not be able to run. Thay said, he said if I want the surgery I can have it cause it is ao large. Im unsure what to do. Im 27 and can walk and stuff but im noticing issues arising with my small toes and really struggling to find shoes that ar

One of my teeth feels weird and loose, when I bite down I can visibly see it mkving down and putting pressure on my gum. Is this normal or should I be worried. My gum is a bit inflamed too. I have tried contacting the dentist but been unable to.

I am genuinely curious as to why this is a thing. I know 18+ is also for gore and themes and if that is stated I am not bothered. However, if it is marketed as mature for romance reasons I get frustrated. A lot of games, if not all, aimed towards women shy away from explicit content and leave it to our imagination. Like they will have partial nudity but not explicit nudity, rather than animations it is just pictures (if we are lucky) or it is text based nsfw content. The games where it is explicit tend to be BL or GL and while I don't dislike it I would like options to see all types of pairings. Am I an outlier? Do a vast majority of women not want to see explicit content in games?

So I had some stressful stuff happen recently and I was on the phone crying to my mum and she asked me at the time if I wanted one of her cats. I said yes cause at the time I thought I would be nice. Due to saying I will take the car and the situation she was in I felt obligated to take her, my mum has 4 dogs and 3 other cats and they are ganging up on this cat.

Well yesterday my mum travelled to drop off the cst and the second she was in the house the reality of the situation kicked in and I felt stressed about it. I said to my mum that I think i changed my mind but she refuses to take her home because the situation at hers is bad and not safe for the cat. I feel a little manipulated beca

Hello, so I performed oral sex a couple of days ago, it was rather rough so I expected my throat to be sore but it also feels like the outside of my neck is a bit sore too. It's a bit tender if I touch it. Is that normal?