Title sounds terrible, so let me explain. And obviously I love my mother, she’s great and I don’t resent her, I just think I might start to as I get older because of this situation.
I’ve had some conversations with my parents lately regarding money/inheritance, their will/trust. You get the picture.
Ultimately my grandpa (dad’s side) left an inheritance to his grandchildren that is to be used to help towards house/wedding. Nothing crazy, but obviously it’s much appreciated and mine is still sitting in a brokerage account as I haven’t bought a house in this market or gotten married.
I think this ultimately makes my dad feel like he needs to do something similar otherwise he’d be a “fail