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u/IssaMeDB


r/Money•

Title sounds terrible, so let me explain. And obviously I love my mother, she’s great and I don’t resent her, I just think I might start to as I get older because of this situation.

I’ve had some conversations with my parents lately regarding money/inheritance, their will/trust. You get the picture.

Ultimately my grandpa (dad’s side) left an inheritance to his grandchildren that is to be used to help towards house/wedding. Nothing crazy, but obviously it’s much appreciated and mine is still sitting in a brokerage account as I haven’t bought a house in this market or gotten married.

I think this ultimately makes my dad feel like he needs to do something similar otherwise he’d be a “fail

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r/summerhousebravo•

As a 28yo man who personally doesn’t really want kids (which is probably the disconnect here), I am having a hard time understanding one thing regarding the “compromise” between Craig and Paige.

Would you rather be with the right person for the rest of your life, but forego kids. Or let the right person walk in order to have kids?

That seems like an absolute no-brainer to me. Like I can’t even fathom choosing letting the right person go in order to fulfill one life desire of having kids….? People would rather be a full time parent for 18 years, and then a passive one for the rest of your life, than have your favorite person by your side for EVERY day of the rest of your life??

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r/Money•

I’m almost 30, and despite working in finance I have been an absolute idiot with money.

Idk if I am looking for reassurance, or people to tell it to me straight (that I fucked up and I’m an idiot).

I got into sports gambling and have since lost my entire emergency fund/cash savings. Something in the ballpark of 15k.

I can’t sleep. I don’t have an appetite and my motivation at work has gone away. I kind of want to just dig a hole and bury myself so I won’t have to deal with the repercussions of my actions. Idk.

Obviously life isn’t over, even if I want it to be. But I wasted all of my cash savings and am now left with nothing to show for my career except the 50k in 401k that I can’t to

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r/PowerBI•

Column A is job #s (some are listed multiple times)

Column B is an identifier about the job, there can be more than 1 identifier per job (hence multiples in column A)

Is there a way to filter for ONLY jobs that have more than 1 unique identifier? So not 2 of the same identifier?

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r/winstonsalem•

Hello all!

Im not a Facebook user but I might have to check out Facebook marketplace if it gets to that point.

Basically my cousin is coming into town for Memorial Day and I think it would be a lot of fun if we could have a nostalgic night of playing GameCube like the good ol days.

Ideally I’m looking for a working GameCube with cords, 2 controllers, and Mario Kart or super smash bros.

Price range is $150 if you have it.

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r/winstonsalem•

About me (and my gf): mid/late 20s from the Midwest. We’ve met some people and have another couple that we hang out with, but overall have had a difficult time meeting people. Despite the title, we aren’t big drinkers (I prefer to smoke if anything) and don’t feel like there are a ton of activities for us here to make friends (we hike, do yoga, go to the movies etc… which is all fun but not very social).

A little while ago we vacationed with some distant relatives and were drinking wine, a family member got to talking about how during covid he was in a virtual wine club with some other extremely successful business executives (friends of friends for him - most he did not know prior) and it

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r/winstonsalem•

So I’m from a state where weed is legal, and frankly pretty much commonplace. I enjoy it most days after work as it makes movies/video games more fun and also clears my head from the day of work.

I try to be considerate of others. I don’t smoke inside the apartment and when I go outside I try to walk away from where people actively are. In 9 or so months here, no issues (outside of the occasional homeless person yelling things at me?)

Yesterday as I was taking my walk, a police officer stopped me. It all went pretty fine, he took the joint away and wrote a report (side note: will that go on my record?) but all in all it was no biggie. I didnt get arrested or a ticket or anything. I am whi

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r/winstonsalem•

I moved down here recently because my girlfriend got a job here after residency (at the hospital, it’s got like 4 names so idk what to call it). We’re in our mid 20s for what it’s worth.

We do hot yoga together but that’s not a good way to meet people since it’s quiet and feels invasive to start a conversation before the class, and everyone just wants to go home and shower afterwards which is totally understandable.

Outside of that activity, we don’t really do a whole lot outside of the home. We’re not big drinkers and it seems like most people just go to breweries.

What are some other activities we could be missing as a way to get out, meet people, and maybe make some friends. Tennis

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r/Southerncharm•

I get it, it’s reality TV and it’s heavily edited, fabricated, acted etc…. And they play up the drama to make it seem so important and like everything is a big deal. I’m just curious if I’m the only one that feels this way about friendships.

I’ve had a best friend since I was 4, with other very close friends that have come along the way of life (high school / college / post-grad). If I have a close friend, I am much MORE inclined to work through the friendship when things go wrong, versus if they were a fringe friend.

Point being, if someone I’m fringe friends with wrongs me, then whatever I will distance myself from them. If someone I am very close with wrongs me, I work with them and w

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r/Southerncharm•

Yes he was a background cast mate for the season, it was like a soft launch of him being on the show. Despite that, it’s apparent that he’s been in this friend group for years and is in fact very close friends to several of them (he’s shown in the background going back to the early seasons hanging out with the cast….)

Andy directly asked him a question, and he was forthcoming and fair. He knows and has seen WAYYYYYY more than any of us have as viewers and is allowed to have an opinion!

I thought he gave a VERY fair assessment, and not only did Olivia rudely tell him to shut up, but now the commenters on this sub are going in on him being extremely mean…. (i don’t like that he turned and

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r/Southerncharm•

So just a little info on my life, after college I moved to a city that was essentially the post-grad college town of my state. It was the place to be for 20-somethings due to its night life and accessibility to our major city where most of us worked.

In this city it’s normal to go out, A LOT… like Tuesdays, Wednesdays, Thursdays, Fridays, Saturdays all had a different bar/club with a different special or attraction for that night. Not saying I went out all of those days but it was not uncommon to go out 3-4 days a week. And obviously drugs were aplenty as well. We had big friend groups and we went hard.

Now you can probably see where I am going with this, but ultimately due to the size o

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So I have been vehemently against the new season from the second OG left, to the point of actively telling people not to play this game anymore if this is the direction Epic is taking the game.

I am someone that played A LOT from season 1 till near the end of chapter 3, so I have seen plenty of progression in the game. From simple seasons to overly complex and convoluted ones with weird mobility and gun systems.

I watched as people tried the new season, I read about peoples opinions, learned about the new mechs and weapons and map, and I screamed my own distaste on this sub Reddit all last week for what epic has done. But I hadn’t tried it myself. Until yesterday.

I decided it wasn’t f

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r/TreesofNC•

Well I’ve tried someone on Reddit and he ended up not responding when it came time to meet (no biggie).

I’ve tried someone on telegram who almost scammed me (nice try)

Where are the normal people at? I don’t need any crazy listing of drugs, just some basic flower and it feels pretty damn hard to find here.

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