I'm always the one to initiate plans with 90% of my friends, and most of the time, I don't mind it. My closest friend never initiates anything.
One thing that's a pet peeve of mine is if someone cancels a plan that has been made weeks prior for no good reason. If something happened, if they're got sick, or if they got physically/mentally tired then I would understand obviously.
That being said, my closest friend and I work at the same job. She's a bit newer. Someone got called in sick today and they were asking in our group chat if someone could cover their shift, and I told her to remember our plans. An hour later, I see that she has accepted the shift.
She told me the only reason she di