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I really need help with this. Im in a seriously weird situation that I dont know how to navigate.

I am hanging out with an amazing beautiful woman. I love everything about her. She tells me she isnt really ready to date anyone, but wants to be friends first. I am not happy about that, because I can absolutely see a future with her and myself. I cant imagine that with anyone else at the moment. It hurts my heart thinking that she could go hook up with anyone, and theres nothing I could say about it, because we are just "friends". I want to be that person she hooks up with, if she wants that.

 

We hang out often, and if it werent for work or other things, we would hang out every singl

So, I (38m) matched with a girl like (28f) over a year ago... we talked, nothing happened, so I unfollowed her.

 

Out of sheer coincidence, she recently entered my life in person, and I have hung out with her at least 3 times now. The first time, we kept our distance. The 2nd time, I got close with her, we were vibing, and having fun. The third time, I bought her a drink, and she bought me a drink, and she shared some personal details about herself (and I didnt even ask)... Since me and her werent like, talking and no intentions were made clear... I also started talking to another girl that sat next to me. She clearly showed behavior of jealousy, and kinda took that girl away from me

Soooo weirdest story ever.

I don’t remember when this happened… might have been a year or more ago…. But I matched with a girl… i also matched with her twin sister. I talked to twin #2 a lot, but for some reason i wasn’t happy, and I ended it. We never met, and i removed her from my social media.

But this year, I made friends with an AMAZING guy. Hes just awesome. He was telling me he’s talking to a girl and she has a twin. I told him, holy shit… i matched with both of them in the past. He is talking to twin #1.

Anyway… i had no interest in either of them at that point. But this guy has set up 1 event and the twins came… I knew when I saw her that im very attracted to twin #2.

I met t

She only messages me on the app. Does not text me on my phone, even though I gave her my phone number before we met on first date….

Should I just assume she is not serious? Im about to tell her im no longer interested.

It just seems weird. To be entirely honest, I may be interested in someone and then immediately upon seeing their social media still has pictures with their ex, im immediately icked and will not be interested again.

Why do people think its normal to do this? Do you think its acceptable? If so, why?

Tbh... I am confused. I have been using mostly Bumble, and Hinge the entire time I have been using OLD. Usually, on Hinge, I would see Long term partner, or short term, or marriage.... you know, stuff like that. On Bumble, its kinda similar.

But I then decided to download and try Tinder... Whats so strange to me is, wayyyyy too many profiles are choosing "Still figuring it out" about what they are looking for.

How can I possibly take someone seriously that doesnt know what they want? I want to know if someone just wants to hookup, or if they are looking for a relationship.

To me, the still figuring it out means that they want both... a little hooking up, and also a relationship, if the on

Hello,

I figured I would give this a try. The truth is, I am tired of the dating apps. I am almost tempted to just give up on dating entirely. I get a lot of matches, and I go on a lot of dates, but I am not really happy.

The way I like to date, is to find someone that Im attracted to, and agree with on values and lifestyle choices... and then I commit to that person, because thats how I feel love should be. Love is more a choice in my opinion, than it is a feeling. Feelings do matter, but you wont just date someone, and immediately fall in love (if you do, then I dont think thats actually love).

The problem with the dating apps, is we have so many options, we find it hard to commit, and

I hope I am not breaking any rules for posting this here... I just had a lot of thoughts, and kinda wanted to write them all down, and see other peoples thoughts on this.

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Hey everyone... I had this thought, and I am kinda scared about it, because I honestly dont know what to do.

So my ex-wife is pretty hot. I divorced her because she cheated, and I would never want her ever again under any circumstances... She looks hideous in my eyes, even though I know she is attractive.

My current girlfriend is also attractive, but not really anywhere near my ex-wife. That doesnt matter to me at all... I am extremely attracted to her, and I love everything about her.

Im just worried that she asks to see a picture of my ex... I honestly dont want her to get insecure. What the hell should I do?

Can I just say, oh, no I have no pictures (which I dont, but if I did enough

Hey, so I (38M) am dating someone (34F). We just had our third date, and I am pretty convinced that I want her. Because of that, I deleted Bumble on my drive home.

I dont know if we are for sure compatible yet… but it feels like we are. I like who she is as a person, and I am very attracted to her, shes freaking hot.

I want to be 100% focused on her, and I don’t want to even consider anyone else right now, so i deleted the app…. We were still matched. I just don’t want her thinking that I unmatched her… should I tell her i deleted it? Or should i see if she notices on her own and asks me?

I have several questions below, so please, if you have any insight, I want you to try to help me with every question here. I have bolded them. The context of everything in this is important. For anyone struggling with the idea of flirting, and dating in general, im hoping that what I write ahead actually does help you, because im kinda figuring this out, and maybe sharing my thoughts will help others.

 

I am a 38M, and I am basically BRAND NEW at dating.

The reason for this, is because I did not date anyone at all until I was 26 years old. I was friends with a girl back in 2010, and she confessed her love to me in 2011... we got married 4 years later, and I just divorced her a