I’m with a partner who when we are together the connection is beautiful, strong and present. She spends month with me in Bali then months apart overseas with her other partner. When she is with him, at first the level of engagement via text is daily checkins with some curiosity about how I am. After even just half a week, the connection goes down to an occasional “thinking of you” message with no curiosity or engagement. When I discuss it with her she says I’m welcome to write and share whenever I want and she will respond when she can (usually at the end of the day or the next day). I’m generally not an anxious person but I find I wait for her messages and I hate this version of myself.
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Today while I was out my partner danced with a tree around the pool in my backyard and a branch broke.
She shared that she had a video of it that she took. I asked if I could see it because she made it sound funny and unexpected.
She reiterated she wasn’t sure why she made the video - just she decided to do that. She said she needed to edit the start and finish before sending.
Watching the video the song she was listening to was one I know she discovered and listened to a lot while she was overseas with her other partner. She was also dancing naked. She had edited the video to just before and after the branch fell.
I get this sense that the video was made to send to her partner (who li
I am hoping someone may know how to move a project from one account to another?
My wife and I both created individual projects on a single paid account. We are about to move overseas so I want to downgrade the plan but it means I need to delete one of the projects.
(You are only allowed one project on a free account)
I would ideally like to move her project into her own free account - so it is not lost.
Does anyone know any way to download or move a project from one account to another?
My 18 year old daughter is about to pay board.
We cover all of her living costs currently - including any medical or incidental costs.
What do others charge their kids for board?
Our main motivation is to make it a level which sets them up to take care of responsibilities around living costs for the future.
I am 42 and considering switching KiwiSaver from Mercer to Simplicity for no other reason than the lower fees.
I don’t plan on accessing the funds before retiring.
Just checking in if now is a good or bad time to switch (or indifferent)?
To be frank - it’s because I don’t understand if there is money left on the table when “selling” from one scheme and “buying” into another.