So I started running a D&D campaign and started with a couple straight guys and a lady (trans AMAB) - I work with the lady. I then added the guy I sit next to at work and his spouse (AFAB enby ace). I carpool with a friend of mine who I've known for almost 20 years who I don't want to come out to now or ever. I was really unsure about coming out to my coworkers spouse but I had never met another ace in the wild before.
After our first 4 hour session I decided it was safe, so when they and I were talking about their new character (the others were chatting and not paying attention), I told them I wanted to show them one of my dice sets. I had them hold out their hand and dropped my ace flag-c



