Setting the ground work here. 35m married for 1.5 years to 38f been together for about 5 years. We have a 2 month old boy and she has two older (13 and 18 years old) from previous relationships. She is currently still on "maternity leave" (the USA sucks). My job only gives me 2 weeks paternity leave so I'm working.
My job is about 20 minutes each way and I'm supposed to work 10 hours. When requested I do take time off to leave early or if she says she needs me I'll leave at anytime. we even set up FMLA paperwork so my job couldn't really complain.
Today I go home about 10.5 hours after I left the house. The 13 year old standing at the top of the stairs worried about the dog. The