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Bought my first rental property and a few weeks in and its feeling tricky to locate a tenant. Reasonable interest but they disappear, credit check is bad, seem sketch af. Its only been a few weeks so I should be patient?

But thinking to explore services that place find tenant for fee. I dont want a property manager, just "find me a tenant".

Do they work? What is normal/fair with this? Im assuming they only get paid on a successful placement but is that true? What to watch it for? Will they have more reach than me? Any advice on how to advertise better also welcome

I did it. I sold all my yolo pics and stonks and the thing somebody on reddit said was good and the stuff I no longer remember why I have it. HCAL made me money so I kept thinking it was some kind of magic beans. People need dollarama and I accidentally had somr so DOL must be a keeper?

mostly was already xeqt/veqt/zeqt/cage but 10-15% was other stuff. I need to be simplifying instead of obsessing ober my gambling. Some of them earned me way more money than XEQT - but i just got lucky and i could be unlucky

Now begins the experiment of "am i less stressed and obsessive". I want to go back to forgetting about everything. Staring at meaningless letters guessing​ if they go up or down

I've got $350k in RRSPs with Assante and want to switch to Wealthsimple to save on fees and move to a self-directed or managed approach, like buying XEQT or VEQT or whatever

I'm a 'buy on autopilot' investor who tends to ignore things for a year once I'm set up. Btw I don't know a whole lot so random advice is appreciated as I've had rrsps but it's historically been via advisors. i want to start avoiding the high management fees though.

Anyway, Should I initiate the transfer all at once? assante funds won't be supported within wealthsimple so i cant do an in-kind transfer. But i think i can (should?) convert my Assante funds to cash-like stuff within the account first? If I convert slowly,

I have lots of filament. I have other printers

I have an A1 mini that's been terrific and debate picking up the AMS for it on the black friday spool

I've seen the idea of

* obtaining a respooling device

* transfering the cardboard core into a bambu reusable spool

The problem with this is what if I have 50 spools and want to pick & choose. Do I need to re-spool all of them? or encase them all in adapters?

Is there like, idk, an inner-core adapter that can be reused by spools?

I'd really like the AMS but fear/uncertainly/doubt about being locked into bambu filaments and/or the hassle of having to re-spool everything - idk, those respooling jigs seem pretty complicated to print/as

Like, picture dunce cap - but the inner core is bendy and twisty. I am literally trying to make something vaugely-like-a-tentacle for my eldritch horror boardgame. I understand that for truely organic shapes I need to go learn blender or something - I am okay if I craft something sub-optimal in onshape

I was trying to sweep a circle along a path but if the path is too bendy (crosses over itself) then the sweep won't form. Plus the circle is uniform in size and I'd like one end to be big and the other to be small

Making a dunce cap is easy enough if I make a sketch of a triangle and do a revolve but those are straight lines and I'd like it curved (preferably in 3-dimensions)

I've done

"free" money comes to me all the time:

• "cash back" credit cards
• bank account interest
• redeeming "PC Points" at the grocery store for 10$ off at the till or something

It felt weird to spend that positive-interest when I'm paying negative-interest on my mortage.

• When I sync/reconcile and the payee is "interest" I assign it to an "Extra Mortgage Payment" category - now ynab auto-suggests it
  • ie, don't put it in "ready to assign" - I put it directly into a category
  • same for "cash back" or "rewards cash" or whatever else
  • same when I got "costco cash back" I'd redeem that for cash at customer service instead of spending it directly at the till
• With "free money" (redee

"I love her so much" etc etc. No really, its been 2.5 years dating. we used the words partner. Or, I did. Right now I'm just sick to my stomach

Then suddenly "we're closeted" right in the middle of an event and I should just be "chummy". y'know, would I mind just turning off my feelings and emotions and keep the relationship I have on the downlow. Like it's no big deal. I'm not even worth a conversation to her.

Who the fuck have I been dating. Is it a real person or is it imaginary - like, is the relationship I have just a fantasy living out in my head. I feel used. Like I'm just a video game they play sometimes. They come over and play house and have this domestic life, with me.

I'm solo poly and i've got 50/50 custody of 3 kids and a full time job and so many todos I drown in them, still working my way through mental health and addiction issues. I've got a full plate, I know.

An when my girlfriend - who I'm taking to dinner - shows me a very nice fan who she got from "a friend", and when I ask "what friend?" and she says a name I don't recognize, like, fuuuuck. it just hit me like a tonne of bricks.

she told me about two of her partners hitting it off at a social event I didn't even know about and couldn't have even attended if I wanted to.. I'm with my kids, prioritizing being a mom, living my best life.

And I just wish I had another partner. I feel hopless a

I Will Not Drink With You Today. Coming here every day and promising a random internet stranger that very thing was one of the things I clung to in those early days.

It's possible. It's worth it. My life is something I couldn't have even imagined back then. And nor should I have even tried. One day at a time. Two days is too many. One day, sometimes one hour at a time.

Today I'm so worn out, tired, I've got so many problems. Some of them problems I only get to complain about because I'm sober and some of them are problems I had back when I was drunk, so regularly, so often.

I didn't quite in a day, I had a number of day 1s and a number of relapses. You know what I did that finall

So I think maybe this is more in the relationship anarchy realm? is there a better sub? idk, but would appreciate advice...

So a few months back my friend Agnes broke up with me. I try to prioritize my relationships equally, like, yes I have a girlfriend, but friendships are also very important. Like, Agnes and I would talk 4-5 times a week, for 30-1hr. We lived in different cities, were not romantic or sexual, but our connection deeply mattered to me. We were in a support program together, that's how we connected

A few months ago she basically ghosted me. Like, if it's a romantic relationship people have to break up with you, there's status changes. But she got too busy with school,

My girlfriend of a year was over this past weekend. I was attempting to "start things" in the morning. She was appreciative but wasn't so interested, so, no worries, but I really shut down, rejection hurts because of my NEx and the dead bedroom past. Then gf did a thing she's done playfully before where I went to get out of bed she pulls me back. I just huddled in a fetal ball. I felt so trapped. Rejected and unwanted and unable to get away at the same time. I didn't communicate I just pretended I was kinda asleep or cuddling/enjoy it or idk. She let me go. I went upstairs and locked myself in a different room and cried my eyes out and on and on and on. It was difficult but I went

like a lot of new subs to r/wallstreetbets i am seeing the community for the first time thanks to GME and I understand nothing about stocks and that the community is intentionally toxic with people self-describing themselves and others with insulting terms that I'm sure could trigger man.

However, there's this running joke about everyone's wife having a boyfriend who is fucking her instead of them. As someone who doesn't find this bad it is hilarious. It read's like a bunch of compersion-happy polies high-fiving each other the great sex their wife his having in the most positive and uplifting way. "I'm holding GME like my wife's boyfriend holds her ass" and such-like.

Ordered a kids bed online: it's fancy, cool, awesome. It came in 3 flat-packed boxes that are heavy. People online commented on how it takes forever to build, so I was prepared. Someone mentioned their husband, who was handy with tools and stuff, took 10 hrs. Okay so I'm on day two and I'm done for the day. I've got one more box to go. It's not difficult but wow this is not Ikea. Like, 6 different kinds of screws, and nails, and allan wrenches, and metal screws that go into different things, and wodden dowels of different sizes, pieces labeled "G" and "G1" and "G2" and there are three G2s, like, wtf?? some of these letters are not used. And sometimes the holes are pre-drilled and

Matched with a guy on okc, he ticks a few boxes (he's poly like me, he seems interested in establishing a friendship/connection first but he's also maintaining the physical interest without being weird or creepy, he knows I'm trans and is not asking any of the bad questions, i like the look of his profile pic). He said he's a "primal dom player"

I'm newer to bdsm/kink but I've started to discover what I like. Being restrained is nice, I've been handcuffed to a, um, in a dungeon, and to a bed, I enjoyed spanking. I'm definitely interested in more. I'm definitely on the submissive side. So when he described himself as "dom" that's a good sign for me.

But what is "primal"? All I can g