Pomfetti

Hello! This is going to be a verryyy long read so thank you in advance to anyone who reads!

I have 7.5 month old twins who dropped to 2 naps 2 weeks ago. We also were waking them up for a dream feed up until 3 weeks ago. Wake windows are roughly 2.25/3/3.5-4. Total nap for twin A is 3 hr 15-20 min. Total nap for twin B is almost 3 hrs.

Twin B: for the last 2 days, he’s completely awake for 1 to 1.5 hrs between 4 - 5:30 AM. He’s not crying, just babbling.

Online says overtired, undertired, learning a new skill (I hope this one since he can’t roll over yet. But also sleeping a lot means learning new skills too)

Twin A: used to nap 3.5 hrs during the day and sleep 11-11.5 hrs overnight b

Hi parents of multiples,

Spontaneous twin boys are almost 5 months old. On and off I’ve been considering rehoming my 7 y/o 19 lb Pomeranian but today I’ve started actually considering it.

Some background about him

- Been with us since he was a baby

- Very reactive towards kids and other dogs

- Bit my niece (not hard) a few years ago when she was 4

- Adjusted amazingly well to the babies..stares at them and doesn’t growl and bark anymore

- Hates walkers and anything that moves on its own

- Our absolute world and firstborn

Since the boys were born, he’s been to the vet too many times. Some of it was out of our control (pancreatitis 2 months ago), but most was our fault. He had a

SAHM of 4.5 month old twins. Long story short, we’ve been fortunate to have someone helping us since day 1. Mot recently, my mom has been with me up until last week - she holds/plays with them and makes sure I’m fed while I do all the diaper/clothes changes and feedings. But since she has her own drs appointments where she lives 1.5 hours away, we hired a grandma babysitter so I’m not alone, especially with one twin now needing weekly head ultrasounds and physical therapy. The babysitter of course doesn’t cook for us so my mom decided to stay a few days a week to cook.

Rest of my family has not been supportive

My dad has been telling my mom she’s spoiling us and we need to cook for oursel

Hi parents! Hoping for some insight, advice, personal experience, anything.

I’m a FTM to 3 month old twins. My husband went back to work a couple weeks ago, and I’ve been lucky to have hired help Monday to Friday 24 hrs (not a “nanny”). However, she has commitments after January 9, and we’ll be SOL. I can’t do this alone.

My husband leaves for work at 6:30 AM and comes home 7 PM. No nanny will work those hours. Regardless, they are out of our pay range with guaranteed hours, vacation, sick time - same with 2 part time nannies. We live in a 2 BR apartment so an au pair or live-in nanny is not an option.

My parents are telling me to live with them until they’re at least a year old.

The c

Hi,

We have almost 3 month old twin boys and are thinking about daycare for when they’re older (not sure how old depends on cost).

Please give recommendations and the cost if you can! We don’t know anyone we can ask.

Thank you!!