Pyewacket62

I was diagnosed with cancer after an emergency situation. I spent a couple of weeks in hospital for surgery and rehab. My aunt has been taking care of my kitty (4 yrs old) at her house.

It's been almost a month now and my daily radiation treatment is almost over (one more treatment to go) and things are settling down enough to bring her home.

Both our worlds have been turned upside down and, my home has been rearranged for my new needs and limitations. I know cats HATE change and I'm worried about her reaction to me. I'm going to smell differently (I'm terminal) and I use a cane or walker to get around.

A hospice nurse will be visiting once a week and, I'll be home about 95% of the tim

I can't even die in peace.

This is for anyone who feels guilt for cutting contact with a nparent. This is for anyone who thinks if they "try hard enough", their nparent will love them. This is for anyone who thinks their nparent will change.

I'm a hospice patient, terminal cancer. All I want to do is just die in peace and I can't even do that.

The incubator went to hospital the day after I had to call the EMTs because I couldn't walk (2 weeks ago). The incubator said I was doing this to make her look bad and garner attention and sympathy for myself.

Her health was poor because she refused to take her maintenance medication.

Not only do I have to take care of myself and make end of l

My girl has been staying with my aunt since my surprise cancer diagnosis and surgery (4 weeks in total). I'm bringing her home next week when my radiation therapy is over and my home is readjusted for my needs. Everything will be different, including my smell. Unfortunately, I'm terminal. Same aunt will take her when I pass.

I know she's going to be traumatized by another move, even when that move is back home. I reckon she'll probably be pissed off at me too at first. Honestly, I feel so selfish in moving her again. I just miss her so freaking much.

Anyone have this experience? Any suggestions in making this transition less stressful, will be greatly appreciated.

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The Pharmacy should call HER to remind her to refill RXs.

She got angry with my aunt for going on vacation. Who was going to take her shopping?

On her nephews, my aunt should kick her own kids out their house, because mother could move in with aunt.

My incubators husband r@ped me starting at age 6. My fault for not fighting harder.

Her go to, favorite lines:

What do I know? Me: ASK

How was I supposed to know? Me: ASK

My cat starts growing and hissing everytime she hears the icecream truck comes through the neighborhood. It plays musicbox sounding songs.

She's strictly an indoor cat, and hasn't had any trauma brought on by said icecream truck. Hell, she doesn't even like icecream!

Any advice to make her more comfortable?