Rad1Red

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I was inspired by a comment in another topic to ask this question.

Few men understand how important their treatment of us is during the most vulnerable months of our lives, the pregnancy and post-partum period. Those months can make or break your marriage and the memories will stay with you for the rest of your life.

Let's give them a couple of examples, good or bad.

First of all, I will offer my congrats for the good ones, and my compassion and good wishes for the bad ones.

Second of all, I will start. Mine was a good one, and it did "make" my marriage.

My husband was an equal partner in child rearing. He woke up for night feedings. Changed nappies although he is severely repulsed by

Hi community!

I'm feeling frisky today and wanted to ask a question, following a post that I saw on another fanfic subreddit.

How many of us write just to tell a story that maybe canon glossed over or they would have liked to see getting more "airtime" rather than making dolls kiss?

It's bad in my fandom. People "ship" pairs who... are canonically just friends. People who are canonically straight are shipped with other men *almost exclusively*. They behave OOC because that's what the writer wants (one example is a dude who would rather eat rat poison than submit to a man, more so one from the enemy race, but is ALWAYS written as the bottom in that pairing).

Or the stories that are ca

So I was having a small disagreement with my sub the other day.

Here's the thing. He's a physically strong dude with an outgoing, leader-type personality in regular life.

But he says his sexual weakness have always been decisive women whom he perceives as smarter than him and who can put him in his place. That's the type he was drawn to even before meeting me (and I know it's true).

His favourite thing is to challenge me and feel overpowered, though he isn't necessarily defiant about it, and never disrespectful.

He certainly wants to put up a little fight before submitting (not necessarily physically), he says it's much more rewarding that way and he gets into subspace much easier.

He

I got the most amazing comment. God bless you, dear reader, you breathed new creative life into me. May your chocolate always be creamy and your pillow always be cool.

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So... I have a question for you lovely folks. An idea just came to me that I might insert into one of my stories, and idk where to take it.

Please guys, don't tell me "wherever you want" or "whatever story you want to write" or "trust your instinct". :) I can write either outcome and it would turn out interesting.

I am asking because I want to know what you guys would want to read. I want to discuss with you. Opinions are gonna vary wildly, I know, but I will read each of your reasons and decide on the path I am going to take. If you can't or won't vote either way, just don't. :)

So, as schematically as I can, so you get an idea.

In my story, a hostile alien ship attacks Earth and is

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And eight subscriptions! I am STOKED. Thanks, you great people you!

Hello, great community!

I come to you with a question directed at men (though not exclusively), and I will welcome all types of insight and replies.

Tagged NSFW, specifically BDSM. Please skip if this kind of adult content is not your thing. Mods, it's okay if you remove this if any rules were broken.

I am writing a spicy story in which the female protagonist, a human woman from a family of large feline trainers, comes across some homicidal (humanoid) 👽 from a matriarchal culture. They're kilers, but they're wired to submit to females (their females, but I imagine that in the right circumstances the instinct could carry). One of them attacks our protagonist one evening and... boy, did he

Hi again, great community!

I come to you with a question directed at male subs, and I will welcome all types of ideas and replies.

So. I am writing a spicy story in which the female protagonist, a human woman from a family of large feline trainers, comes across some homicidal (humanoid) 👽 from a matriarchal culture. They're kilers, but they're wired to submit to females. One of them attacks her one evening and... boy, did he choose the wrong target. 😈

In one scene, our female protagonist collars two of these guys with shock collars, they are dangerous man-eaters after all. But don't worry, they're sturdy beings. ;) She then makes them install some foolproof restraints on her bed, and cha

Where my girls who are not into the OV, "pack dynamics", "bully alphas" or other such stuff at? I feel like this sub has turned into "omegaverse harem" lately. Or those people are very and frequently vocal with asking for and receiving recs etc. Is that all that RH is? I'm sorta starting to feel alienated. And speaking of that, alien relationships/worlds seem to get that treatment as well. Maybe this is just not my place? 😢 Can we have a roll call? Does anyone have any recs for RH stuff outside the OV?

Hi lovely community!

I need advice on how to punish my beautiful painslut. He overstepped his boundaries. This needs to be a punishment that would effectively deter him from doing it again... But I also want it to be sexy, 'cause that's the kind of sadist I am.

I'd love to hear your fun ideas. What would my sister Dommes do? What would our subs find hot... but be afraid to endure? 😉 Bonus points for stuff you've actually done, but fantasies are very welcome too.

Thank you and have a fun weekend, everyone!