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I say "women" because they truly mean attractive women, the only ones they register. They'll whine about how women are shallow for wanting a tall, handsome, rich man while they want an eternally young, curvy, IG model. Basically men only want looks (they're "visual creatures") while women can like men for either looks, wealth, personality or sense of humor.

What women "typically like" is at least attainable: a man can work on his personality or save money. Heck, he can even get leg surgery now. Women don't need all 4 to feel attracted to a man, usually an ugly man can make up for it by being charismatic. Men on the other hand only want pretty women, which can't be attainable unless the wom

I hope someone can relate. I (25F) can't make friends, let alone get a bf. I do have acquaintances I'm close to, but not close enough to call them friends. But that's ok ig.

But regarding dating... I feel like I'm alone in this. I'm like a 'femcel' -- a weird ugly woman men don't want.

I thought nobody approached me because I'm just autistic, but I've realized other autistic women seem to cope way better than me because first of all they do have a partner and/or friends. At least by 25. I feel like I'm a failure even by autistic standards, because women my age, ND or not, all seem to succeed socially more than I do. Heck, there even seems to be fetishization of autistic women as "manic

I hope I can receive some advice. I (25F) can't make friends, let alone get a bf. I do have acquaintances I'm close to, but not close enough to call them friends. But that's ok ig.

But regarding dating... I feel like I'm alone in this. I'm like a 'femcel' -- a weird ugly woman men don't want.

I thought nobody approached me because I'm just autistic, but I've realized other autistic women seem to cope way better than me because first of all they do have a partner and/or friends. At least by 25. I feel like I'm a failure even by autistic standards, because women my age, ND or not, all seem to succeed socially more than I do. Heck, there even seems to be fetishization of autistic women as

Simplemente no sé qué he hecho mal. En mis 25 años nunca se me ha acercado un hombre en la vida real y me sorprende cuando dicen que las mujeres siempre tienen pretendientes por existir.

Contexto: vivo en Chile, tengo TEA y un IMC de 27. (Lo menciono porque estos factores tal vez sean repelente de hombres). Estoy intentando bajar de peso. Cabe recalcar que ni siquiera cuando tenía peso normal se me acercaba alguien xd

A este punto estoy convencida que soy extremadamente fea y/o rara y que los hombres simplemente se fijan en una minoría de las mujeres. Por esta razón no puedo sentir empatía por los incels, puesto que claman que las mujeres lo tienen todo fácil y ningunean mis experiencias.

Sí, tema repetido. Pero he notado que muchos de estos incels que lloran porque las mujeres tienen estándares demasiado altos (según ellos solo quieren chicos malos con plata) no son capaces de darse cuenta que ambos hombres y mujeres tienen estándares. Incluso el más feo los tiene. Sí es cierto que la mujer los tendrá en promedio más altos que el hombre, pero eso es sólo cuestión de lógica, digo, si tienes el riesgo de quedar embarazada obviamente tendrás la tendencia a ser más selectiva.

Y volviendo al tema de los estándares, los hombres no tendrían cualquier pareja. Una cosa es tener sex0 y otra es tener pareja. Generalmente cuando un hombre piensa en "una mujer", no se imagina a una vie

That stupid subset of men are everywhere around the internet, claiming women are all this and that, that they hit the wall at 30 (or 25) and always reject the "good guys" and only want Chads who have 6packs, are 6ft and earn 6 figures. Tf?

As an autistic woman who's never been approached before in my 24 years of living I hate them and even more so for invalidating my experiences (or lack of) about dating. They seem to think all women are young curvy and thin (and neurotypical), rejecting men left and right.

I feel incredibly alone and ugly because it's expected in my country for women to be approached. I'm not. Guess I'll just end up alone. And according to those men, women just keep los

I've been in a bad mood for a while now because I feel ugly af and bitter towards everyone: men as a whole and pretty women. I live in a country where usually men ask out women (like in most of the world), but I've never been approached myself.

For context I'm 24F, autistic and socially inept. Men treat me like a little sister more than anything. But no one IRL is interested in me. Heck, I've never been SA'd or catcalled before, and that's, I've heard, an universal female experience... not that it's a good thing but I feel so desperate I'm lowkey jealous of posts of women saying men won't leave them alone. I'm also tired of people assuming women have thousands of men chasing them. Truth is

I'm (24F) a social failure and a failure all around for my age. I've always been bad at socializing but I excelled academically at least. But after high school, I couldn't figure out what career to study until little ago so I'm late now compared to normal people.

For context I'm diagnosed with ASD and OCD. It was hell on earth these past few years and the pandemic didn't help. I'm just so late in everything. I haven't ever been in a relationship either and I'm getting desperate. I must be too ugly or weird. My younger sister already beat me on that. I think it's because I'm overweight now after struggling with my mental health years ago, my BMI is 27. But.. even when I was thin no one was i

I (24F) have never been approached and honestly I'm getting a bit desperate.

For context, I'm diagnosed with ASD and I'm in college. I feel like a failure. I've always struggled to make friends because I'm socially awkward and it's hard for me to relate to people my age. I have managed to make "friends" and they tell me I'm not weird but I'm not so sure about that. At this point I think the reason I'm not approached is because I'm both weird and ugly. Men seem to treat me more like a little sister even when they're younger than me.

It frustrates me when some men online say stuff like "women have it so easy" and that they're asked out all the time... that's just not true. Or that all women

Long story short, I was permanently banned for "insulting" and "misinformation". Banned for "insulting" another user (I called him an incel) who was advising an OP that he should date women from third world countries because they aren't infected with western culture and they respect men as they should. And banned for misinformation for saying that feminism seeks equality for both sexes. Mod explained it's misinformation because "feminism is as extreme of a PoV as masculinism is".

After replying to the mod I was temporarily muted and they redirected me to r/menkampf to show me how feminism is practiced nowadays.

Suffice it to say that the user I was talking to, who called me "lil biaa

Have you seen the Good Doctor memes around lately? One where there’s the protagonist (autistic) having a meltdown in the left and the chief doctor on the right just staring. Usually accompanied with a virgin vs chad format, mocking how the protagonist is acting. Seen a lot on twitter. It is one of those few cases where alt rightists and progressive autism advocates agree and make fun of the same thing. I think it’s obvious why alt rightists make fun of it because they’re just not accepting towards ND people. But the reason why progressive “autistic” advocates make fun of it is - and I quote - “because autistics don’t act like that” “we can mask a meltdown” “the actor is doing autistic blackf