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About a month ago, I got a mild concussion at work from a kid hitting me full force in the temple with his shoe. I was out of work for about a week with dizziness, brain fog, headache, and nausea. After that week, I was pretty much completely fine, and a week after that 100% of my symptoms were gone. Today at work, I accidentally crawled underneath the metal box that holds the fire extinguisher while playing with a kid and then tried to sit up, so I hit my head into it with a bit of force. Afterwards I noticed I had a bit of a "weak stomach", gagging at gross things kids did involuntarily when I do not usually have this issue, and didn't manage to eat a lot of my lunch because of this. Now I

I very recently (Thursday afternoon) sustained a minor concussion. I went to the urgent care Friday morning and was dx'd and told I'd likely be fine by Monday to go back to work and such (today). Most of my symptoms were pretty much gone by this morning other than some tiredness/exhaustion which tbh I assumed was from the stress and from oversleeping while I was recovering. I worked from 7:30-3:30 today and then laid down after work to rest and have a snack. After eating now (5:30) I suddenly got extremely nauseous again. None of my other symptoms returned though, so I'm not sure whether this is because of the concussion/if I should be concerned about it or if its likely unrelrated? Is this

We are trying to use a discord group chat to be able to call each other during a road trip. My friends have a setting in their notifications to "integrate calls to phone app" so they get call notifications outside of the app, but I do not seem to have this setting at all. Has it been removed? Is there a different way to fix this issue?

Hi all! I'm having some trouble with my seconds that I got done a few months ago and it seems to be related to this little weird ball I've got inside my earlobe. Only one side (the one with the weird ball) is getting irritated with me after changing Jewelry and the other side seems to be completely fine. It got irritated with me today and when I took the earring out to clean it and see what was going on there was actually a bit of blood, and both piercings had ceased bleeding or having any sort of discharge for over a month by now.

As for the weird ball: I've had this strange little lump inside my right earlobe since before I got my seconds pierced. It doesn't usually bother me and isn't r

I (22NB) am seriously considering breaking up with my partner (21NB, "Bailey" for this post). We have been together for almost 1 year.

IMPORTANT CONTEXT: I have DID (previously known as multiple personalities). I am polyamourous, and both of my other partners (both 19NB) also have DID. Neither of them is dating Bailey, they are just dating me and each other. .

Over the last year, I have noticed some really not great behaviors from Bailey towards both me and my other partners, particularly surrounding either important conversations around things like boundaries or surrounding my or my partners alters.

First major problem is how Bailey treats alters, particularly ones they are not a

Background: Both Beth and I are poly and have other partners. I have DID, as do my other partners, but this one does not. Sally and Cat live with me, Beth does not.

I (22NB) have been on and off struggling with whether I should stay with my partner (21NB, i will call them Beth) for a month or so now. There have been many connected incidents here, but I will do my best to summarize for readers' sake. I will delineate the issues into two "categories" so they're easier to track.

Cat 1: Poly Issues

There are two major issues in this category. The first being, both of Beth's other partners are long distance and regularly completely offline for months at a time. I have discussed with Beth

Background: Both B and I are poly and have other partners. I have DID, as do my other partners, but this one does not. S and C live with me, B does not.

I (22NB) have been on and off struggling with whether I should stay with my partner (21NB, i will call them B) for a month or so now. There have been many connected incidents here, but I will do my best to summarize for readers' sake. I will delineate the issues into two "categories" so they're easier to track.

Cat 1: Poly Issues There are two major issues in this category. The first being, both of B's other partners are long distance and regularly completely offline for months at a time. I have discussed with B how this makes me fee

Edit: TW for possible implications of csa, I can't make the spoilers work for some reason sorry

We just today had a couple alters get assigned a new role labeled Historian, it appears this role is essentially the job of mapping out what we know about previous "versions" of the system (we've had a few different "versions" where we kinda got "reset" and had all the active alters go dormant and start over with new alters). The document they are working on it nowhere near finished, but I am looking at the page with information on the first known version of the system, from when we were in 4th-7th grade (possibly earlier to start but we don't remember earlier), and there is an alter listed that

I just have this overwhelming feeling rn of "I wanna go home." But the thing is, we are at home (our apartment away from our family), so it's not that. And my source (fictive) sucked ass so its not like I want to go back there. I don't know what I want. I just want to go home but that doesn't fucking mean anything. I feel trapped right now and I don't know why. -🎴