I have been in what I thought was a happy monogamous relationship for the last 4 years with my SO. We have had our ups and downs especially with me dealing with my BPD and him working out of town a lot. But everything lately had been fine and I thought we were happy.
Well the other night we are sitting down just talking about the topic of monogamy comes up (I’m not to sure how it came up but I think he brought it up). Well he says “I don’t believe in monogamy I don’t think anything living being on this earth was created to be monogamous. Society just forces monogamy on us. I didn’t say anything because this is news to me. So he keeps going and he says “I’m only monogamous because that’s wh