Revilo4

u/Revilo4


r/berlinsocialclub•

I'm 19 and have been here since a year. Looking to improve my German and make friends possibly (I'm quite isolated), while I'm on Grundversicherung. I've been wanting to sign up for a B2 afternoon course (VHS Neukölln) either 2 or 4 days a week. Not sure if I'll find people in a similar age range, since it would be quite nice to be able to build some connections or even just have someone to go out with... Any advice would be appreciated.

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r/needadvice•

So me and my friend that I’ve known since 6 years old wanted to go on a trip to europe, where we would be mostly traveling alone in hostels. We are both 17 years old. I am half German and would go there to see family anyway. He pressured me into booking flight dates from 7/9-8/15. I didn’t want to book flight dates because I wasn’t sure what I really wanted to do over the summer. Now what I exactly feared happened: I have finally made friends at school and maybe won’t have a lonely summer. I have a really hard making decisions and planning things because of my poor mental health. I worry I won’t be able to enjoy this trip at all because of it. I feel forced to keep contact with this friend b

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r/Advice•

So me and my friend that I’ve known since 6 years old wanted to go on a trip to europe, where we would be mostly traveling alone in hostels. We are both 17 years old. I am half German and would go there to see family anyway. He pressured me into booking flight dates from 7/9-8/15. I didn’t want to book flight dates because I wasn’t sure what I really wanted to do over the summer. Now what I exactly feared happened: I have finally made friends at school and maybe won’t have a lonely summer. I have a really hard making decisions and planning things because of my poor mental health. I worry I won’t be able to enjoy this trip at all because of it. I feel forced to keep contact with this friend b

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r/needadvice•

So me and my friend that I’ve known since 6 years old wanted to go on a trip to europe, where we would be mostly traveling alone in hostels. We are both 17 years old. I am half German and would go there to see family anyway. He pressured me into booking flight dates from 7/9-8/15. I didn’t want to book flight dates because I wasn’t sure what I really wanted to do over the summer. Now what I exactly feared happened: I have finally made friends at school and maybe won’t have a lonely summer. I have a really hard making decisions and planning things because of my poor mental health. I worry I won’t be able to enjoy this trip at all because of it. I feel forced to keep contact with this friend b

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r/Advice•

I'm 17 and currently a junior in highschool. I haven't really ever been happy and have had depression since around 10 years old. It got worse throughout highschool. Like the drinking water, sleeping well, won't help kind of depression. I feel like I've wasted my highschool years. I'm going on a 5 week long trip to Germany and the rest of europe this summer and like the majority of my life I'm worried I won't be able to enjoy it mentally.

Ever since switching schools this year I've had a girlfriend I found initially online. She has been the person I mainly hangout with, since I haven't made any efforts to socialize until recently. Ever since our relationship started I feel she has been slig

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So me and my girlfriend met on sort of a dating app last September (wizz). I only ever had a very brief romantic experience with one person beforehand while she had quite the experiences, which can sometimes make me feel inferior. At the time I was desperate and lonely and had transferred schools. I struggle with mental health disorders. The one thing that i’ve always noticed is i rarely feel that “spark” with her. I enjoy physical intimacy with her, but oftentimes it feels fake and unenjoyable for me. I’ve had a hard time deciding if this was just my mental illness or her. We made out on our first date so there never was much of a build up at all.

One key issue: I’ve felt slightly manipu

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