SaintWithO
u/SaintWithO
I want to learn how to connect to people.
For more than 20 years I never made an effort to make friends because usually someone else did the first move for me. Now because of the pandemic etc. I feel like I totally lost any ability to talk to new people and create any deeper relationship with someone.
What is ok to ask people about not to be too invasive or something. Did you learn it and if you do how? I am genuinely curious and I will be happy to read any of your opinions/advice on the topic xd
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Ok this is basically how to make friends, but I didn't want to write it that way.
Ok. I just wanna post this question, bcs English isn't my 1st language and im writing a song and this is the place where I know what does it really mean to me specifically, but I dont know If it's the message that I want to deliver through these words.
I'll be very grateful for you defining what is happening with the guy who says. "I fade away from tears"
Thank you :D
I'm not strictly ace, more close to demi, but I think you might like the story. So I's with my gf few months ago. We had a night for ourselves it was pretty soon as we got together so i wasn't feeling ok with having sex yet. We were laying on a couch and after a while of cool oxitocine stuff she asked "You're not ready for those things yet, are you?" I said nope not yet
She said ok and then we were laying together watching a stupid tv show about a guy who's taking trips all over the world talking about cultures. And it was incredibly comfortable for me to do that. Amazing feeling.
This is my short asexual story, hope you like it :p
You are introverted? Wonderful
Mostly people are ambivert and others are higly extroverted. They will want to meet with you, have parties, enjoy your company. Most of them also need time for themselves, more or less.
The point of this post is: You're special, but you're not special. We're different nut not so different.
WE'RE NOT BETTER
Group of extroverts having fun n dancing aren't "worse" "herd". You're not the saint introvert while reading a book.
If u want people to understand what does it mean to be introverted try to understand pushy extroverts or u'll be just another annoying guy spreading the word.
Annoying extroverts say: Omg those antisocial loser doesn't know how to have f



