I’ve been dating and on the apps all my adult life. With moderate success here and there. Things were better in NYC but since moving to Seattle it’s been terrible. I think I’m a decent catch, tall, tattooed, good looking, in shape, good job, kind guy, good sense of humor, whatever. I haven’t been on a first date in 3+ years. I get some matches, not a ton, maybe 1 a week, but it’s just so hard to find what feels like mutual enthusiasm in Seattle. Getting people to talk and open up about themselves is like pulling teeth or conducting an interview. If I ask 5 questions in a row and no one bothers to elaborate or ask anything else back I move on.
Yesterday I decided to set my location on bumble
