I'm looking for advice from anyone who's navigated a long-distance co-parenting transition.
I have two children (6 and 3) with different fathers. My 6-year-old son is autistic.
Three years ago I moved from Washington to Colorado because my daughter's father became unsafe (breaking into my apartment, destructive behavior). My son's father and his girlfriend moved to Colorado shortly afterward so we could continue co-parenting. Neither of us actually wanted to live here.
My daughter's father has been out of the picture since she was 2.
The problem is that Colorado isn't working anymore. I live with my mom, and while she's helping with childcare, we fundamentally disagree on parenting and t

