Slothjon

Yeah, what more to say haha. I’m a 19-year-old student currently living in Cape Town. Over the past few years, I’ve realized that while Cape Town has a lot to offer in terms of culture, nature, and lifestyle, the local BDSM scene can be a bit quiet and limited in scope. Because of this, I’ve been exploring online spaces to see if there’s a part of me that can really be fulfillesd, and to connect with people who share similar interests and passions. I’m someone who is very curious and open-minded, and I enjoy discovering new dynamics and experiences.

In terms of my interests, I’m really into TPE, edging, JOI, anal, masochism (but like in a cool way not a way of someone venting their hatred o

Yeah, what more to say haha. I’m a 19-year-old student currently living in Cape Town. In my experience, the local BDSM scene can be a bit quiet, so I’m exploring online to see if there’s a part of me that can really be fulfilled. I’m into TPE, edging, JOI, anal, masochism, impact play, punishment, discipline, and bondage. Anything not listed as a limit is open to discussion and exploration. My only hard limits are toilet play and gore, but otherwise I’m open-minded, curious, and eager to learn new things safely and consensually. I enjkoy connecting with people who are confident in their interests but also willing to communicate and negotiate boundaries clearly.

Outside of BDSM, I love stayi

Yeah, what more to say haha. I’m a 19-year-old student currently living in Cape Town. In my experience, the local BDSM scene can be a bit quiet, so I’m exploring online to see if there’s a part of me that can really be fulfilled. I’m into TPE, edging, JOI, discipline (like routine and me being obedient), and bondage. Anything not listed as a limit is open to discussion and exploration. My only hard limits are already a limit for this subreddit, but otherwise I’m open-minded, curious, and eager to learn new things safely and consensually. I enjkoy connecting with people who are confident in their interests but also willing to communicate and negotiate boundaries clearly.

Outside of BDSM, I l

Yeah, what more to say haha. I’m a 19-year-old student currently living in Cape Town. In my experience, the local BDSM scene can be a bit quiet, so I’m exploring online to see if there’s a part of me that can really be fulfilled. I’m into TPE, edging, JOI, anal, masochism, impact play, punishment, discipline, and bondage. Anything not listed as a limit is open to discussion and exploration. My only hard limits are toilet play and gore, but otherwise I’m open-minded, curious, and eager to learn new things safely and consensually. I enjkoy connecting with people who are confident in their interests but also willing to communicate and negotiate boundaries clearly.

Outside of BDSM, I love stayi

Yeah what more to say haha. I'm a 19 year old student currently living in cape town. In my experience, Cape Town has been a bit dry when it comes to the bdsm scene, so I'm looking to the interwebs now to see if there is that part of me that can be fulfilled. I am really into tpe, edging, joi, anal, masochism, impact play, punishment, discipline, and bondage. Otherwise, if I don't list it as a limit then we can definitely discuss it haha. My limits are only toilet play and gore.

Apart from my BDSM interests, I love staying fit at gym, or going for a run or on a hike up our beautiful mountains. Otherwise, I love playing board games, reading, watching movies, and getting to know new people. Ju

So I'm an M19 sub here, and for years I've wanted to find someone who's dominant, but no dice. I live in south africa, cape town, and we dont have the biggest bdsm scene. No matter where I've looked, I havent been able to find anybody. Whether it's irl, dating apps (not that it matters but I consider myself somewhat attractive so I've been able to get a good gauge of the people around), and even fetlife (which was terrible and I was still unable to find anybody or networking events). So I'm just sitting here a little down about it. Is this a part of me I'll just never be able to engage with?

Is there anybody who can relate or offer some advice?

I want to get the mount but I cant find any guides on how to collect the ichor