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Good communication--requested and was approved for a small extension. 10/10 would lend to again.
Borrower fell on some rough times, which I empathize with. Had me not ghosted me, I would have happily agreed to a plan that worked for him. The ghosting particularly hurts because I gifted (not lent) him $100 for his daughter's birthday. In one of our recent text conversations, I asked him "why didn't you tell me earlier [about his situation], why ghost me?" His response, "Just been sticking my head in the sand and hoping it all goes away...".
Borrowers who read this, again I emphasize we WILL work with you but you cannot just vanish into the ether.
Funds fully recovered. He made most payments so he will be receiving a refund from me tomorrow.
Member voluntarily paid me today, the day after I opened a PayPal dispute. Unfortunately, he still has 2 other loans outstanding which I have disputed as well. We will see what he is able to do.
Terrible communication. No effort at all. I'm sorry but if you can't pay back $70 in 3 months, can you really say you are trying?
Very pleasant to work with but unfortunately was not always forthcoming. I called out a questionable excuse and it took them a few times before they finally came clean. No judgment here as we've all been through rough spots but I just ask that borrowers understand that we are accustomed to being lied to. The best thing to do is tell the truth.
Honestly, would probably not lend to again; that being said, you would probably have no issue as I think he felt terrible about not being honest and would not do it again.
Borrower stopped responding. Funds recovered forcibly.
Communicative borrower. On time with extension.
This is such a shame as this person was a prior borrower with great communication and timeliness. I normally wait longer to post UNPAIDs but this person went dark 2 weeks ago and missed all 3 installment dates. They were very friendly and always said yes sir, no sir, three bags full sir; just a cover though for being a liar and a thief unfortunately.
Some beautiful kids you have...I have 4 myself. Hopefully none of your kiddos take after your shitty example and steal from others trying to help you out. I hope your conscience (if you have one) nags you daily until you can muster the courage to pay me back what you owe me.
Asked for extension, which I granted, and has done dark since. It really isn't that much money--it's not that hard to do a couple of odd jobs and pay back your creditors.
I don't understand how your conscience allows you to pull this shit.
It takes a special kind of scumbag to just wake up, look in the mirror, and be okay with the fact that they are both a liar and a thief. Have some fucking integrity.
Go fuck yourself for ghosting. I would have gladly/easily worked out a long term payment plan with you.
For all you scumbags who purposely don't pay back their debts, go fuck yourselves. God/the universe/whatever you believe in will give you the karma you deserve. Go fucking mow literally 2-3 lawns and pay back the people you owe. Fuck all of you.