Somilya

It will cost me almost 200 dollars to move spots but I just don't want to be here. There are no locks for valuables, no locks for the dorm room (even though I am in an all women dorm), or even the bathrooms and showers. I do not feel safe because of that.

There is a loud party until 2am right under the window and they barely have toilet paper here on top of it. I visited here because of a festival so the noise is not the fault of the hostel. But it doesn't help because I need to sleep. After 2am people wake me up with movements which is normally okay but not when I don't get to sleep well.

I am somewhat afraid of what the front desk will say and I feel bad wasting money. But...I am sufferi

A few years ago, I did pelvic floor therapy and it helped me complete a pap smear even if it took a long time. That was last year. I rarely work with dilators now, but I recently started seeing someone. It is going well, and I'm happy.

This is the first person I've dated and we both agree about taking things slowly, which is good. However, I'm afraid of sex still, I tell myself if I completed the pap smear then I can probably have sex but I am not sure how it could be different and what else I should do to prepare. I am sad about what would happen if I tried and it failed.

I've been at my first job at a university for 4 years. I really like my boss and will miss working with her. I moved to a new position at the university for more money, but I'm really scared and upset about it. It is still an administrative assistant position, but instead of working with undergraduate students I will have far more interactions with outside executives and that makes me feel intimidated.

So far, there haven't been any red flags. My new coworkers seem nice, the onboarding emails they are sending me have all been standard, and when my current boss provided a reference she also got the read that my new boss would be a reasonable person. Outside of my immediate boss, the overall

I met someone online while traveling last year, and we met when I visited his city and we've stayed in touch. He was interested in me romantically also, which I could pick up on then, but I'm shy and have almost no experience in dating other than holding someone's hand once a year ago. I'm in my late 20s.

He confessed to me tonight, and I find him nice as a friend and I'm not sure if I am attracted or not because it is hard for me to tell, but the problem is we live in different countries 14 hours away and I'm just not really capable of an online relationship even if I was interested which I'm not sure about. He was really nice about my rejection, but something about it still makes me feel

I have been in my current job at a university for almost four years. It is basically my first job. My immediate boss is great. We work together well and are close. The work/life balance is good, I'm not required to be very visible and as a shy person that's great, and I know what I'm doing. I'm so comfortable there. Upper management sucks but I barely deal with them. So the only problems are the salary and it is a dead end, which I wouldn't care about if the salary wasn't so bad.

So I interview for other roles here. I found one with a similar/lateral title that pays well, has remote work, the tasks seem in my skillset, and people I interviewed with appeared nice and didn't give off any big

My family is dysfunctional and financially unstable, I helped them even when it was impacting my financial stability. I could have paid off my student loans if I didn't help them then. They finally paid me back earlier this year after years and I thought this would be the first time in a long time where I could enjoy a holiday without feeling upset, resentful, and dulling those negative feelings to get through it.

Then two weeks ago they asked me for another large sum of money because they took out payday loans. One of my parents has worker's compensation coming in anyway and they still asked me. I wanted to help them again but I can't. I didn't tell them I couldn't help. I'm so upset by th

I have vaginismus.

I have gone to physical therapy. I have done the exercises. I have had all my medically mandated fingerings. I have put dilators (big dialators) inside of my body. All in preparation for a pap smear. This year, I successfully completed the pap smear as a result of all this work.

But I still cannot use tampons, and I don't get why. I don't understand. All my life I've heard from people about how "easy" they are and I feel like the only way they can say this is that they must have less feeling in their genitals than I do, because every single aspect of tampons I have experienced has been fucking horrific.

When I was about 12 or 13, my mom tried to help me put one in. Sh

I feel like I'm going insane because I don't understand how this could have worked. I am on the second day of period, using a pad, and it is a heavy day. I noticed today a small circular bloodstain on the front of my jeans. I have to sit all day for work. This is annoying, but I have a jacket I can put around my waist and cover it so I don't really care.

But when I went to look at my underwear, there are no stains. I didn't bleed through the underwear. But somehow, I have a stain of blood on the front of my jeans near the crotch area. I have now noticed that there is another small one. Again, no stains on my underwear. My underwear isn't that small either.

This feels like ghost blood. Has

I used to hang out with a group of people when I moved to a new town. I didn't really get along well with most of them but I was lonely in a new place and needed something. I developed a crush on one of the people. He seemed so nice but awkward and distant. I wanted him to like me back so badly and I was really shy. Another person in the group liked him and was very posessive towards him and we both knew we liked him. She was so jealous of his friend, who I also really liked and wanted to be friends with. Eventually things got so toxic with the way she was treating everyone I told them the whole situation. I invited him to take a walk and confessed to him and told him what was happening and