Steeliris

u/Steeliris


Background info: we have been together for a year agree in things like marriage and kids. We mostly live together. She keeps in contact with her ex (who she is still married to) which I knew and was kind of ok with provided she answered questions about their interactions which she did.

As I was leaving town for a trip that hand been scheduled for a while, she called and said "hey my ex is driving up a bunch of furniture." Her ex lives 8 hours away. I said it was kind of odd and she said well he just called. I was a little upset and skeptical and said "OK but please don't go to dinner and keep me informed."

Later that night she said "well he actually told me two weeks ago but I've been sic

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r/relationships•

Background info: two partners in our 30s, dating for a year. She keeps in contact with her ex (who she is still married to) which I knew and was kind of ok with provided she answered questions about their interactions which she did.

As I was leaving town for a trip that hand been scheduled for a while, she called and said "hey my ex is driving up a bunch of furniture." Tje ex lives 8 hours away. I said it was kind of odd and she said we'll he just called. I was a little upset amd acted insecure by saying "OK but please don't go to dinner and keep me informed."

Later that night she said "well he actually told me two weeks ago but I've been sick so I forgot to tell you." (She has been chro

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r/ChronicIllness•

My (30) girlfriend (31) of 8 months began having GI issues 4 months ago. She also has depression which she takes meds for but won't go to a psychiatrist for. She's chronically in pain and she is highly allergic to gluten but eats it anyway. She tries to avoid the office visits but does eventually go. I feel terrible for her and recognize the difficulty of daily life so I set up the Dr's appointments, do all of the cooking and cleaning, store runs, etc because I know how much she's struggling. I believe there is an end in sight provided we keep doing tests and making our appointments.

The GI issues cause a lot of pain. The first time she had them, she snapped at me and I was a bit down. Abo

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r/Firefighting•

I like to keep my SCBA Waist straps tight so that the weight rides on my waist more. However, once I stick a tool through my belt I can't seem to get them tight. Any tips or tricks???

P.S. currently on probation so I cannot get a separate tool belt.

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r/hoarding•

Background

Some of the background is in the message. I have lived with my fiancee for several years. Objects have piled up over time. I refused to recognize there was a real issue for a long time because the stuff is minimal in comparison to a friend who kept every piece of garbage and her parents who are hardcore hoarders. I recently moved out of town for a job. I am still helping her pay rent at our place while I complete my training and look for adequate housing for us out here.

Recently, I went back "home" for the holidays after being away for a month and the house was an absolute disaster. I didn't handle it well, I got extreme anxiety and just shut down for half a day (I couldn'

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r/Reno•

Is there a local place that offers adult swim lessons???

Bonus question: any advice for adult learners?

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