I'm a bit of a "backwards" guy. I was raised Baptist/Evangelical, and in spite of the "Jesus and you" approach, practicing some of the more "monastic" dispositions has come more naturally for me, even before joining the church in my 20s. Things like fasting, long prayers (sometimes just "sitting" with God), seeking to serve others and make little of myself, giving thanks for the beauty of Nature, etc. Not perfectly, of course, but maybe easier than some other virtues.
But where I've struggled, and continue to struggle, is in trying to know where to aim for some of the virtues of married life, and the associated "life in the world", and putting that into practice. Things like: caring about m
