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From a guy: having a small tool should be normal, not anxiety-inducing

I’m writing this as a guy because I don’t think we talk about this honestly enough.

Having a small tool is normal. Way more normal than the internet, porn, jokes, or locker-room talk would have you believe. But a lot of us grow up feeling anxious or ashamed about it, like it’s some kind of personal failure. That insecurity doesn’t come from reality — it comes from constant comparison and casual shaming.

Most of us didn’t wake up one day and decide to be insecure. It’s built over years of comments, memes, and the idea that size equals masculinity or sexual worth. That pressure messes with your confidence, your dating li

I feel like this doesn’t get said enough, so I’ll say it.

If you’re a guy with a smaller tool and it’s something that messes with your confidence you’re not alone, and you’re definitely not broken.

So much of what men are told about worth, masculinity, and sex is tied to size, and honestly… it’s kind of ridiculous. Confidence, communication, humor, curiosity, kindness those things matter way more in real life than locker-room myths or porn standards.

I’m genuinely curious how guys with smaller sizes experience dating, confidence, or intimacy. What’s helped you feel better about it? What hasn’t? What do you wish people understood?

If you’re not comfortable commenting publicly, my DMs are

do you have a small tool? Does that make you anxious?

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Fit, discreet bull here based in BGC, looking to connect with a cuckold couple who values trust, communication, and good vibes. I’m not just about the bedroom I enjoy real conversations, laughs, drinks, and building comfort first.

Open to being a friend, hangout buddy, and seeing where chemistry leads. I respect boundaries, hygiene, and discretion, and I expect the same.

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Bull looking for a chill cuckold couple – BGC / nearby

Fit, discreet bull here based in BGC, looking to connect with a cuckold couple who values trust, communication, and good vibes. I’m not just about the bedroom I enjoy real conversations, laughs, drinks, and building comfort first.

Open to being a friend, hangout buddy, and seeing where chemistry leads. I respect boundaries, hygiene, and discretion, and I expect the same.

If you’re a couple who enjoys the cuckold dynamic and wants someone confident, respectful, and drama-free, let’s talk. Happy to exchange pics and chat to see if we’re a good match.

DMs open. No rush chemistry over everything.

Bull looking for a chill cuckold couple – BGC / nearby

Fit, discreet bull here based in BGC, looking to connect with a cuckold couple who values trust, communication, and good vibes. I’m not just about the bedroom I enjoy real conversations, laughs, drinks, and building comfort first.

Open to being a friend, hangout buddy, and seeing where chemistry leads. I respect boundaries, hygiene, and discretion, and I expect the same.

If you’re a couple who enjoys the cuckold dynamic and wants someone confident, respectful, and drama-free, let’s talk. Happy to exchange pics and chat to see if we’re a good match.

DMs open. No rush chemistry over everything.

Open relationships: fantasy vs. reality for couples?

I’ve been thinking a lot about open relationships lately and wanted to hear from people with real experience or strong opinions.

For many couples, the idea of an open relationship sounds exciting in theory — more freedom, exploration, honesty, maybe even strengthening the primary bond. But I’m curious how often that fantasy actually matches reality once emotions, jealousy, boundaries, and day-to-day life come into play.

Some questions I’m genuinely interested in:

For couples who tried it:

what surprised you the most (good or bad)?

Did opening the relationship fix underlying issues, expose them, or create new ones?

How much communica

Open relationships: fantasy vs. reality for couples?

I’ve been thinking a lot about open relationships lately and wanted to hear from people with real experience or strong opinions.

For many couples, the idea of an open relationship sounds exciting in theory — more freedom, exploration, honesty, maybe even strengthening the primary bond. But I’m curious how often that fantasy actually matches reality once emotions, jealousy, boundaries, and day-to-day life come into play.

Some questions I’m genuinely interested in:

For couples who tried it:

what surprised you the most (good or bad)?

Did opening the relationship fix underlying issues, expose them, or create new ones?

How much communica

Open relationships: fantasy vs. reality for couples?

I’ve been thinking a lot about open relationships lately and wanted to hear from people with real experience or strong opinions.

For many couples, the idea of an open relationship sounds exciting in theory — more freedom, exploration, honesty, maybe even strengthening the primary bond. But I’m curious how often that fantasy actually matches reality once emotions, jealousy, boundaries, and day-to-day life come into play.

Some questions I’m genuinely interested in:

For couples who tried it: what surprised you the most (good or bad)?

Did opening the relationship fix underlying issues, expose them, or create new ones?

How much communicat

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