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Hello,

I am a British citizen married to an American. We applied for a K1 visa which was granted in summer 2024. I arrived in the US in Sept 2024 and we married in Oct 2024. We submitted the i-485 form along with all our documents last month.

Yesterday I got a letter from USCIS about setting up an online account which I did and attached my case. Under my I-485 profile is an A number as well as an online account number. I have never seen the number listed as the A number before. However, when I received my DS-160 while I was still in the UK, there was a number on it that began with A and then a combination of letters and numbers. I put this down as my A number on my I-485 and now I feel in

I can be very tech challenged so I'm sure I am just screwing this up somehow. I have just got the dowsing rod and am trying to hook the levels from the water. I can throw it and it shows "snag" and I then push the left stick up three times. The up arrow buttons disappear but the dowsing rod just comes back to Concord and nothing happens. The exclamation point is still over the lever and I'm not fishing out anything. I've tried pressing all the other buttons and only the left stick makes the arrows disappear, when I press the other buttons nothing happens at all. What am I doing wrong?

By far the biggest issue that my ADHD causes day to day is not actually paying attention, it's being absolutely incapable of task switching or transitioning. Any activity that involves some transition from one state to another can be incredibly difficult for me.

For example. I work mostly from home since the pandemic started (I'm lucky to have a job that has continued to allow us to do this). Today I sat down at my desk about midday to work and turned on my laptop. It is now quarter past 5 and I haven't touched my work laptop because I cannot get off my personal laptop. I literally cannot take the step of drawing my attention away from the personal laptop and re-directing it to the work la

TW HEALTH ANXIETY, if you have health anxiety yourself maybe don't google what I'm going to talk about in here.

I've been stuck in this cycle for three days now. I have health anxiety that has flared massively because I tested positive for covid. One of my absolute worst fears is not being able to sleep, not just for a night or two but like... permanently. When I was like 9 an older kid told me about a very rare prion disease that can cause this and I was totally traumatised by it, it's never left me. As an adult I know the likelihood of this happening to me is close to 0 but the fact that it's even a possibility is enough. I can't relax because my anxiety is so bad and it's stopping me sle

This pandemic has made me realise that I know nobody. I had people I socialised with sometimes but since last year, we haven't kept in touch beyond liking each other's posts on Facebook. I remember seeing people talking about Zoom parties and game nights with their friends and my only Zoom gatherings have been with my parents and siblings.

I used to have a few friends. They just all kind of fell away over the years.

Over the last year I've realised how bad my social skills actually are. I respond to people's anecdotes with my own anecdotes, which I genuinely had no idea other people found rude until a couple of months ago. My voice is always too loud, unintentionally, and so is my laugh -