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I am married in my early 40's and have always had issues achieving a truly great orgasm from sex, as opposed to masturbation.
This is due to the moment of orgasm, not knowing whether to keep thrusting during climax or to be stationary. Either choice seems to result in a somewhat fizzle.

Recently I have tried determining exactly why, because I want to improve on this. I purchased a fleshlight for better testing.
What I have come to realize is that during climax, the head goes very sensitive which results in some mild pain/discomfort if I keep thrusting. Rather if I keep stationary, I don't have any discomfort but the lack of stimulation at climax leaves me with a fizzle.
This seems

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