I like my therapist in general and I’ve been seeing him for a while. He’s also particularly helpful to me because he has shared experience with me as a trans man. But here’s a big problem… as soon as I started opening up about my sexuality and processing things that were going on in my sex life, he would start sharing too. like a lot. like i know way too much about this guy’s sex life. it makes me uncomfortable and i feel like they’re not supposed to do that.
i know i need to tell my therapist that he is revealing too much about his sex life to me and that i know he is just trying to use common experience to relate it, but is jarring for me. i didn’t really think it was supposed to go both
Me 25M and my boyfriend (26M) have been best friends for almost 10 years and been together for like a year and a half now and we could not be happier. Whenever we have arguments, we resolve them the same day. We’re very good at open and honest communication. We both dress kind of alt and have piercings/tattoos. I generally have no problem with this and find it attractive, but I’m a little bit more conservative with it than he is I think.
A bunch of times this year he has come home with new piercings and I’ve had to just kind of say “wow looks great”. Or at worst when I reacted to the snake bites piercings, I was just a little bit shocked at first, but it was not a negative reaction and I qu
