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I'm in an irrevocable trust in Utah with my 6 siblings. The 2 oldest are the co trustees. We kept my late father's bank account open with his savings to use for house expenses until we can sell it. We are listing the house in a couple of weeks and hope to have it sold by October. However, the plan is to deposit the payment for the house into that bank account (only the 2 co trustees have access).

I have brought up that we need a separate account opened for the trust, so that we can deposit the money from the house sale in there and have everything documented and streamlined for tax purposes. They keep looking at me like I asked for their kidney.

I'm very close knit with my siblings, so the

It only took 15 years, but my group number finally got called to report at Civil Court at 8:45am tomorrow. Does anyone know what I should expect and how long I will be stuck there tomorrow? I work in hospitality and am already stressing out having to miss out on much needed income.

I am devastated and don't have anyone to talk to (all my close friends are monogamous).

I don't know how to navigate this pain. He is so in love with someone he broke things off with me and his other partners to marry a woman in Barcelona because he is in love. I've never dealt with this before as it is my first poly relationship. I need support/advice?

And I don't give a shit. I am in middle management I believe my employees deserve to be treated well and earn a living wage. They are a failing company who told me to my face that they would rather they be paid as little as possible and replaced with machines.

Looks like a need a new job

Situation:

I'm participating in an organization that trains Bartenders to become USA Boxing amateur boxers in a 3 month period. The purpose of this is to teach bartenders how to balance out our typically stressful and unhealthy lifestyle that goes along with our career. Basically a 3-month long bootcamp for people with little to no fitness or boxing experience to transform themselves into fighters. We will fight each other first, and the winners will fight another city participating in the org. It's being sponsored by a liquor company, so they will be doing a lot of press and promotion within the bar industry. This could also be a great networking opportunity.

Why I need advice:

I already

Currently 26 days sober. In the early morning hours of July 10, I went to the ER. Got berated by the doctors. They kept asking me questions about my drinking. My only response was "I didn't do anything out of the ordinary."

That's the thing that most people don't know... those of us in the bar industry have a different "normal". Functional alcoholism somehow becomes "professional drinking". It's pretty much an industry standard. We spend both our work lives and leisure time around alcohol. The thought of quitting always felt like it would put an end to my career. I've been bartending for 6 years, bar managing for 7 months, and this is the the first time since I realized that I CAN do this a

Hey guys. I just became the manager of a bar I've been at for 4 years. Things are not going as swimmingly as I hoped with my staff. They are all fairly new to the industry. Rather than getting into details, I would like to know what you think makes a great bar manager. Any advice for a new boss would be greatly appreciated.

Hello r/Tokyo! I'm a 27 year old american female visiting your city from San Francisco. I got in on the 8th and leave the 18th. This is my first time ever in Japan. My trip so far isn't going as well as I have wanted it to. I came here with a friend who has been here before, so she is not as adventurous as I am. She is also working a lot from her computer and is more concerned about her other travels after leaving here. She also wore improper shoes the first few days and is sore with blisters and knee problems so she wants to stay in and rest. It's getting really frustrating for me dealing with her spoiled rich girl problems while I had to work my ass off the afford to take this trip. We are