bigjohnholm

Adding onto what the other poster was saying about most popular dating apps these days: Anyone else feel like Tinder and Bumble have gone downhill hard? Every time I open them it’s fake profiles, OF promos, or conversations that go nowhere. I swear I spend more time deleting the few matches that I even get than actually talking to real people.

I’m just looking for something simple—real hookups, real local women, not endless dead-ends. Cold approaching where I live isn’t really an option either, so apps are kinda all I’ve got.

I ended up trying casualfind.com to find apps without tons of bots. What stood out was way fewer bots compared to the usual apps. I actually

I saw that other post and wanted to chime in. I agree it does feel like Tinder and Bumble have gotten pretty bad lately. Every time I hop on it’s fake profiles, or matches that never respond. Kinda kills the whole point.

I’m just looking for something straightforward—casual, real people, and local. Cold approaching isn’t really my thing where I live, so apps are basically it.

I did try one of the lesser known sites I’d seen mentioned a few times called Instabang.app. Seems good so far - a lot less fake profiles and geared towards people looking for something casual.

Curious if anyone else has found anything decent lately or if this is just how things are now?

I saw that other post and wanted to chime in. Feels like Tinder and Bumble have gotten pretty bad lately. Every time I hop on it’s fake profiles, OF promos, or matches that never respond. Kinda kills the whole point.

I’m just looking for something straightforward—casual, real people, local. Cold approaching isn’t really my thing where I live, so apps are basically it.

I did try one of the lesser known sites I’d seen mentioned a few times called Instabang.app. Seems good so far - a lot less fake profiles.

Curious if anyone else has found anything decent lately or if this is just how things are now?

I saw that other post and wanted to chime in. Feels like Tinder and Bumble have gotten pretty bad lately. Every time I hop on it’s fake profiles, OF promos, or matches that never respond. Kinda kills the whole point.

I’m just looking for something straightforward—casual, real people, local. Cold approaching isn’t really my thing where I live, so apps are basically it.

I did try one of the lesser know sites I’d seen mentioned a few times called Instabang.

Curious if anyone else has found anything decent lately or if this is just how things are now?

I saw that other post and wanted to chime in. Feels like Tinder and Bumble have gotten pretty bad lately. Every time I hop on it’s fake profiles, OF promos, or matches that never respond. Kinda kills the whole point.

I’m just looking for something straightforward—casual, real people, local. Cold approaching isn’t really my thing where I live, so apps are basically it.

I did try one of the lesser know sites I’d seen mentioned a few times (Instabang.app).

Curious if anyone else has found anything decent lately or if this is just how things are now?

I saw that other post asking this and wanted to chime in. Not sure if it’s just me but Tinder and Bumble feel completely cooked lately. It honestly feels like every other profile is fake, pushing OF, or just doesn’t reply. I'm kinda over wasting time on it anymore.

I did end up finding a site called instabang.app after seeing it mentioned a few times here and there and it’s been alright so far.

Feels like there’s a bit more variety in who’s on there - yes milfs, but also younger, not just the same profiles over and over.

I’m mainly just looking for something legit and easy—real local people who actually want something casual. Cold approaching where I live isn’t mu

I saw that other post asking this and wanted to chime in. Not sure if it’s just me but Tinder and Bumble feel completely cooked lately. It honestly feels like every other profile is fake, pushing OF, or they just doesn’t reply. I'm kinda over wasting time on it anymore.

I’m mainly just looking for something legit and easy—real local people who actually want to hookup. Cold approaching where I live isn’t much of a thing, so apps are pretty much the only option for me.

I did end up finding a site called instabang.app after seeing it mentioned a few times here and there and it’s been alright so far. Seems like it’s been around for a while and there are definitely actu

Not sure if it’s just me but Tinder and Bumble feel completely cooked lately. Feels like every other profile is fake, pushing OF, or just doesn’t reply. Kinda over wasting time on it.

I’m mainly just looking for something simple—casual, real people, local. Cold approaching where I live isn’t really a thing, so apps are pretty much the only option.

I tried Instabang (instabang.app) after seeing it mentioned a few times and it’s been alright so far. Seems like it’s been around for a while and there are actually real users on there. Not saying it’s perfect, but definitely noticed fewer obvious bots compared to Tinder.

Also feels like there’s a bit more variety in who

Anyone else feel like Tinder and Bumble have gone downhill hard? Every time I open them it’s fake profiles, OF promos, or conversations that go nowhere. I swear I spend more time deleting matches than actually talking to real people.

I’m just looking for something simple—real hookups, real local women, not endless scams. Cold approaching where I live isn’t really an option either, so apps are kinda all I’ve got.

I did end up trying Instabang (instabang.app) after seeing it mentioned here and there, and it’s honestly been a different experience. It’s been around for a while and apparently has a pretty big user base, but what stood out was way fewer bots compared to the usual apps. I actuall