bordered

Do you have any strategies for predicting when someone is going to flake at the last minute on a hookup? Why do people flake? I've noticed this breed of guys that will commit then flake and block without any communication to or from me after we've made a commitment. If I'm going to bottom and that's clear then I take plenty of time to make sure it's going to be a great experience. I guess being in South Alabama I should expect this to be more common. I'm getting tired of it because it makes me sad and angry and I've wasted a lot of my time. I know someone will say just accept that it's part of hooking up or don't hookup in the first place. I like doing it so don't want to stop just wa