Hello friends,
My last job offer was ~3 years ago. My (engineering) friend hyped me up telling me how he got offered way more than what he expected just by asking. I had a fairly generous offer so I said why not doesn't hurt to ask. They rescinded the offer completely and I felt a slight sting of regret. I'm glad it didn't work out in retrospect but I am just a bit nervous after my last experience.
So I got a VA job offer. I want them more than they want me. My current work setting is actually pretty damn awesome and I am sad to be leaving but the commute is grinding me down and I need something closer. I'm not after the big bucks (obviously) but I feel like if I can ask for more I should.

