This happened a little over four years ago, but I’ve been thinking about it lately.
My wife is an insurance attorney. She had arranged her maternity leave with her employer, but our son arrived three weeks early. After five days in the hospital for the birth and follow-up care, we finally got home with a healthy baby. She was exhausted.
About 30 minutes later, her personal cellphone rang. It was a client of her employer, asking why she hadn’t responded to their emails. The client had found her number on our state bar association’s attorney directory. She tried to explain that she had just given birth and was on maternity leave, but the conversation kept going.
I lost my patience and took



