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The bride sent out an ultra-specific dress code, including orange/green, velvet pants, Louboutin heels, soda hats and fluffy jackets for the men, and everybody over 160lbs had to dress in black or camouflage? They were going to do a choreographed dance on the beach to create an incredible (or stunning?) "visual effect". I remember the post clearly, thinking that it was the ugliest dress code I'd ever heard of, but I honestly can't stop thinking about it, and I would literally give my right arm for a video of the dance, if it exists, or even an idea of the inspiration or what the bride was hoping for. Help me!!!!

I'm losing my mind. Is it even possible to date men as a woman without also taking on some roles of motherhood? "Interrupting is rude." "We don't throw things when we're angry." "It's okay if we remember things differently, it's important to work together on how to move forward though."

Why are these controversial? Why am I having to explain them to an almost 40 year old? Why is it my job to make him listen to me when he can't stop cutting me off? Is this just the price of admission for dick?

For real. This is terrifying. How can we help? What can we do?

I'm a good knitter. My colourwork is something I'm pretty proud of, but for the life of me, I can't figure out how to fix the tension on my floats. They're never consistent, they always pull, or they're too loose, or both. I've googled, I've YouTubed, I've raveleryd, I've read the books. None of the tips are working for me.

Please - how did you get your floats perfect? I've seen so much beautiful colourwork in this sub, I KNOW there are some pros out there. I'm looking for anything that might help me feel a bit less despair as I start thinking about next Christmas.

Thanks y'all!

I can't figure this out. Most of the pores on my face are small and blackheads aren't really an issue. But in the middle of my right cheek, there's one huge pore (probably 3-4 times bigger than the ones around it, and easily the biggest pore on my whole face), and it is ALWAYS clogged. I have to extract it regularly and it often develops a pimple with a hard cyst. It doesn't cause a lot of problems, but it just seems so weird. Thoughts? Is this a normal pore thing? Should I be worried about scarring?

Any tips on not being sketchy as I'm looking to get sorted here? I don't want to up-end regional norms with North American crassness, so local advice would be appreciated!