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r/ADHD•

Let me open this up with the fact that I’m incredibly forgetful, everyday, 24/7, as the title states. I forget meaningful gifts I’ve received, forget what I’ve gotten for others from a couple days ago. On a shorter scale, I forget instructions and I have to ask the same question for extremely simple things like what different words mean. When I’m playing video games or talking to people, I’ll completely forget what they just told me seconds after the conversation happened. If a follow up question comes up immediately after, I have to ask again even if I know I heard what they said.

It honestly scares me enough that I think I need a brain scan, I wonder if I could have a brain tumor or some

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r/restaurant•

I have trouble with being overly critical about employees, I get super frustrated when they do lazy or bad things. The worst thing about it is that I’m not in the position to do anything about it, so I feel powerless. Is there any method to this madness? I can’t seem to just stop caring about this stuff, especially because I care a lot about the quality of how stuff comes out.

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r/sexualassault•

I was sexually abused online for many years when I was a preteen. Now when I have sex with my boyfriend, even when I do want it, my brain starts saying I don’t want to have sex and I just have to stop the interaction entirely before I get too uncomfortable by the idea of us moving forward with it. I feel pretty bad, and frustrated by it. It feels even worse because sometimes I’ll be able to enjoy what he does to me, but once he turns it to him I’m suddenly uncomfortable with it, which is because my past relationships were somewhat one-sided and I was usually pleasuring my past partners, even if I didn’t want it. Any advice would be helpful

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r/medical_advice•

I was at the clinic recently and my mom brought up concern when they wanted to use a floqswab on me. She said it breaks the “blood-brain barrier” and that no other clinics in our area use it. Is this true or is my mom overreacting?

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r/hygiene•

It’s the only posts I’ve seen on r/hygiene for the past couple days. As a woman myself, I’m tired of it, and feel like they’d get enough information by scrolling through the subreddit. I kind of wish there could be a pinned post or rules against it, as the question is starting to feel a bit excessive. I’m not against asking for help, I just feel like there are other ways to learn.

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r/Vent•

I still have close friends, but they’re all too far to see often. I’ve known them all for a couple years, but it still gets lonely.

Before then, I had IRL people. I had a boyfriend and a group of people who were around, but I wasn’t happy. I never end up happy, I’m always unsatisfied with how things end up. I then get restless and beg for more, more effort, I feel like I’m doing more, or I set boundaries and tell them they’ve been hurtful and I struggle to back down. Sometimes I have a hard time accepting that what I say is also hurtful, and by the time I realize it’s too. I think it’s a mixed bag on who’s at fault, but in the end I don’t see anyone I used to. I wish I could’ve let things

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r/work•

Both of my relationships have been majorly damaged because of work. Both men say they want a job, and claim they’re trying their best despite being selective about it. They’ll talk a big game, with the most recent ex saying it’s easy to find a job and people just aren’t trying hard enough, and now he’s unemployed and struggling. I’ve seen men complain about the distance or the times they’ll have to work, or say they don’t want that job. They wont try internships because the reward isn’t immediate, and exclusively apply online even when around and turning in physical applications has shown to be more effective when it comes to finding a job. The worst part is, I don’t actually care if they’re

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