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My long distance BPD girlfriend cheated on me. We have been talking for almost 8 months we met on September 30 and we got together on January 27. During this whole time she was on and off with her ex of three years, her ex didn’t know about me and I didn’t know about them. My BPD girlfriend always assumed I was the one cheating and lying I’m guessing she was just projecting. I only found out because her friends have told me and then her friends told the ex. She made so many excuses by saying she thought I was the one cheating and that we weren’t together at the time or that she lost feelings, she had also started flirting with another person during June. Apparently it wasn’t very serious, bu

It’s like the title says, my ldr gf cheated on me, I just found out from her friends today. Having your friend in my contacts was not a good idea, only reason I have it is because I didn’t want to talk to her and her friend texted me saying “hey can you talk to __” but today I found out that said friend didn’t even know we were together, nor her other friend. Then I found out she was talking to another girl and her ex behind my back, thanks to her friends for telling me. I feel disgusted. The person I trusted and loved for 8 months almost 9. It’s funny, she was the one accusing me of seeing other people and lying behind her back, well guess I should’ve gotten the hint she was projecting. T

My gf has bpd and we’re ldr, in the beginning she was so loving, caring, affectionate, and nice. Over time we have went through hardships, I’ve been blocked so she can try getting better which I agreed to it. Contact was always broken after a couple of days, she missed me too much and I missed her too much. After January things got worse, I told her to stay with me because she was unhappy without me. But that changed me, we got into arguments more often, she’s never as energetic as she was when we first met, I once talked to her about that and she told me “I was what you wanted me to be” her responses and texts have been dry, she doesn’t give me the same love anymore because “I can’t give th

I love my partner, when things are good they are amazing but when things are bad they get really bad. we are long distance and she has bpd, she’s going through a hard time where she isn’t well and she can’t give me much so her texts have been short and dry but quick responses. I know she loves me and I want to support her, but we recently had an argument and she tells me she never feels seen or that I don’t understand and I don’t listen. She has expressed this to me many times but I can never get it right, she won’t open up about her feelings anymore because when she did that I didn’t react correctly and it turned into an argument. We’ve had many arguments recently. How do I get her to open