It's been 3 years since I decided to "give up" drinking. Drinking was so terribly difficult on my mind, relationships, and body.
In these three years I've been successful at work, making good decisions and more money. I've strengthened my relationship with my wife who loves me and takes care of me in a thousand ways. But most importantly I've been sober, available, and kind to my children who are young, observant, and smart.
Quitting involved medical help and rehab, and it came at a very inconvenient time in my working life. I was spiraling, and suffering, and was living daily and drinking excessively daily just to avoid being sick with shakes and anxiety attacks regularly.