Is she flirting with me or just being friendly? I have a professional relationship with the girl in question. I'm her client. We are both in the UK.
ghostpath
u/ghostpath
My female neighbour is very friendly and we sometimes stop for a chat when we see each other on the street.
She's invited me into her flat a couple of times. Each time I've said no.
She's a nice person and I wouldn't mind being friends with her. However, I'm worried that if I go into her flat it could send the wrong signals.
Background:
I was married for well over a decade. During that time I did not have friendships with other girls. Since separating from my ex-wife I have lived as a MGTOW monk and have stayed away from women.
I'm not sure how to interact with women anymore, other than say exchanging friendly banter with a female shop assistant.
I've heard so many horror stories, bot
I recently read this post on the minimalism subreddit. Someone was saying that it was awkward having a minimalist apartment because freaked out girls if he brought them home.
That's not a problem for me as I haven't brought any girls home and I don't intend to.
I have few possessions. I have a laptop, a guitar, a pull-up bar, some cooking utensils, not much else.
I sleep on a yoga mat on the floor.
During waking hours I sit on the floor by a low table where I put my laptop.
I have a wardrobe for my clothes. The rest of my stuff goes in a few cardboard storage boxes on the floor.
My walls are painted white and left bare.
I have translucent blinds and I like the way the sunlight fil
Zazen on the mountain
The birds have vanished down the sky.
Now the last cloud drains away.
We sit together, the mountain and I,
until only the mountain remains.
Li Po
China, Tang Dynasty
After following the MGTOW path for many years, I have come up with a 3 step thought process for dealing with women:
- Yes, I know you have a hole between your legs.
- Yes, I know you think this makes you special.
- No, I don't care.
Just found out about this via the TFM 420 show.
The Cohabitation Rights Bill [HL] is a private member’s bill introduced by Lord Marks of Henley-on-Thames (Liberal Democrat). The bill had its first reading in the House of Lords on 5 July 2017 and is due to receive its second reading on 15 March 2019. The bill proposes to establish a framework of rights for cohabiting couples following the breakdown of the relationship or the death of one of the cohabitants.
The bill’s provisions would apply only to those cohabiting couples who either had a dependent child or who had been living together as a couple for a minimum of three years. The bill would provide the right for ei
Stefan Molyneux recently interviewed Peter Lloyd, a journalist who has written for major UK newspapers including the Daily Mail, Daily Telegraph and Daily Mirror.
After discussing the current state of gender relations and the endemic societal discrimination against men, Peter Lloyd advises men not to get married due to the huge risks involved.
Quite noteworthy that someone who makes a living writing for mainstream publications has the courage to say this openly. Perhaps we're starting to see a shift in our culture.
The interview is here:
I work online as a freelance consultant and work for a number of clients. As a freelancer, having to constantly sell myself is essential to keep the work coming in.
My main points of contact for all my work projects are males.
However I do have contact with females, who typically act as intermediaries for the more senior males. The contact is conducted primarily over email.
I have gotten into the habit of exchanging witty banter in my emails with these females. I find it easy to do and it's always well received. The main reason I do it is because I want to impress upon them that I'm a "cool guy" so that I'm well thought of and will be in the forefront of people's minds when they're recrui
Before finding MGTOW, I studied Game for a while to prepare for getting back into the dating market. After finding MGTOW I decided to go my own way and avoid dating altogether.
As I now have a better understanding of female nature, I limit my interactions with women as much as possible. I don't hate women, I just prefer not to deal with them.
Nevertheless there are instances where dealing with women is unavoidable, in both my professional and personal life
In these circumstances I use Game and Red Pill concepts to guide my interactions with women.
For example:
- I am very conscious of female manipulative behaviour, such as trying to elicit sympathy to get me to do things for them. I alw
The next phase of my life will likely be one lived in isolation. In embracing this change I've been reading the poetry of Chia Tao, an 8th Century Zen monk from China.
His work is a richly evocative chronicle of life lived in solitude and contemplation.
If anyone knows of any similar writers feel free to share.
Here's one of Chia Tao's poems:
LATE IN THE DAY, GAZING OUT FROM A RIVER PAVILION
Water to the horizon
veils the base of clouds;
mountain mist
blurs a far village.
Returning to nest,
birds make tracks in the sand;
passing on the river,
a boat leaves no trace on the waves.
I gaze at the water
and know its gen
This happened to me after my divorce had been initiated but before the court had finalised the divorce.
My wife who always wanted a baby decided that she would get one without me via IVF using donor sperm.
I was concerned that I might be responsible for child support for any ensuing child given that our divorce had not been finalised.
After doing some legal research I found out that according to the law, I could be held as the legal father if the baby was conceived whilst we were still legally married. I was very worried as it would take a few more months for the courts to finalise our divorce.
There was a way out, set out in the legislation: I had to fill in a form from the relevant IVF
During the time they dated, the female student alleges that during several nights when they slept together, the male student groped and fondled the woman while she was sleeping, without her consent.
YouTube video from our favourite chimp: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zTOA1IHCp7g
I used to be a sucker for the idea of romantic love. I'd get emotional when hearing a song like "Little Wing" by Jimi Hendrix, or even "True Colors" by Cindi Lauper.
After discovering MGTOW I learned that the idea of romantic love is an illusion. It can be a trap, a very dangerous one, for a man. But there was still a small part of me that believed that it might just possibly exist, that I still could find it if I met the right girl.
That part of me is gone. Meditation helped, as did reading books about Buddhist thought.
But what helped most of all was just visiting this subreddit every day for over a year and reading the stories of the men who post here.
It's really been life changing.