Sorry for the wall of text. Tl:dr Am I a lesbian or am I just healing after my first attempt at dating a woman.
I am 46 yrs old and I’ve been legally separated from my husband for almost a year. (We are doing legal separation to protect our disabled son financially.). I’ve always identified as bi since I first knew I liked women, too, around my late teens. But I never actually dated a woman. I got married right out of high school. That lasted 11 years. I was single for just over a year and had a major hoe phase including many women but no actual relationships. Then I met the new ex and it’s 15 years later.
I put myself on the apps when I was ready and checked the interested in e
