manytinyhumans

I know this is a common complaint, and yes I’m bitter, but it’s truly maddening. I deleted the app because my last 7 lucky packs have only had regular ex’s. How does TCGP benefit from this? Does it actually increase user engagement? I don’t understand how players, especially those who have been with it from day one, could take this as anything but a slap in the face. Genuinely curious if anyone can explain the logic behind it.

This is probably more of an audhd thing, but I’m never able to conjure up my thoughts/experiences/knowledge on the fly. I feel like I need to skim through all the books I’ve read, research anything political/philosophical to recall what my views are, think through my whole life to remember personal stories/experiences, etc, in order to successfully volley with someone in real time. I always get caught on the spot, claiming to love something and promptly blanking on everything I know about it. Makes me feel shallow and stupid. One of my least favorite feelings :(

It’s not technically my first time, but the handful of experiences I’ve had took place over ten years ago and were fueled by a lot of alcohol, so I don’t remember much.

I’ve been talking to more gainers recently and have a few potential dates/feedings in the works. I’m excited to feed again but pretty nervous too. I know every encounter is different & open communication is key, but I guess I’m just wondering what general wisdom the more seasoned members of the community have to offer. Things you wish you’d known when you were first starting out, attributes you appreciate (or dislike) in a feeder or gainer - any tidbits you may have to share are much appreciated! 🙏