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The allure of feedism is an intoxicating combination of a few very strong kinks, at least for me, and I think that putting them all together is what gave me a feeder fetish.

First and basest, it’s humiliation. I get off on humiliating my playmate, or teasing them when they are humiliated. It’s goes with a power play dynamic that’s pretty common, especially for people who are already into BDSM.

Equally important, though, is that belly stuffings and related play can easily continuously reassure me of my vulnerable companion’s consent, and their trust in me. I struggled a lot with my sexual orientation as a dominant, worrying that something was evil or wrong with me, and then being a victim