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Hello! I am having trouble moving to the area, I have looked on zillow and trulia but the extra needs I have limit me a bit. Does anyone know some good property management companies I could look into? Thank you so much!

My bf and I have been trying to move and it has been a big thing(in progress for about 5 months). We have been together for a year and we basically started this relationship with the knowledge that we would move eventually. He is the type of person that gets defensive if you ask him something repeatedly but this move is really important.

All the places he applies to seem to fall through for one reason or another. I have offered alternatives and offered to help look but this only seems to make him more uncomfortable or frustrated. This is what makes me feel like he is lying or hiding something.

I hope that he is trying but I also want to find a way to move before next month , if we don’t

Reddit suggests have been triggering me and I don’t know how mess with it without spending a ton of time or like no time on reddit..

Any suggestions?

For anyone curious the trigger is an ad in particular…

I feel like he doesn’t listen to a f@cking word I say.

I told him over and over what I want is to move out of state. It’s been four f@cking months. And I am so tired of waiting. I am about to do this on my own.

I just feel so angry and sad that I feel like I wasted my time.

I feel like he lied to me and led me on with the idea of moving. I even helped pick out places, offered cheaper places, asked about staying. Etc.

I just can’t. We have been together a year and some change and I am about to blow this to pieces over this.

I got into a partnership that is getting more and more troubling for me. I won’t go too much into the details but it is incredibly unstable and unsettling. I need some resources to be honest.

I want to go but many of my close family and friends see the income my new partner makes as reason to shame me for leaving.

I may need to rely on my parents who were my primary source of trauma in childhood.

I’m 31 diagnosed bpd and adhd. My boyfriend doesn’t want to have kids. I have epilepsy and I think medication wise it would be best not to have kids. But right now being 31 I am surrounded by friends and family having children and it is extremely hard for me. My mom and dad were also not great to me and I don’t want to pass any of their behavior down.

I just am struggling emotionally every time I see people have happy moments with their children. It makes me sad. Like I am missing out on something. I know raising children is incredibly hard and I use to work with kids so I know what being around kids is like.

I am not sure how to get over this because I definitely can’t have children of

I am slowly learning to manage most of my symptoms at home but the gas pain is just vile and going NO where…. Any otc recommendations for trips to manage while I travel out of town. It can get so hard I have to sit or lay down and I feel like I am missing part of my trip.

I am switching from oxycarbazabene (trileptal) to keppra due to break through seizures and I am struggling hard core.

Like I had to cut my trileptal early due to a potential medication conflict with so no slow transition.

I am having so many breakthrough seizures and it has been like 3 days on these new meds… I know that keppra takes a while to work but I am just feeling down right now.

Any advice I could get or just a moral support would be nice. I know switching is the right thing for me so I know this is important but it is so hard.

I am going to go ahead and say sorry for this rant it is loaded. I hate having to prove my diagnosis to doctors over and over.

I get they are doing their job but it drives me bonkers. Like I cannot stand sitting here and having people doubting me like I don’t take meds for funsies. I don’t take them to have a good time.

I really struggle with this one. And it almost makes me want to stop taking meds but I know how much they help so I keep fighting every doctor and some of them it’s legit every visit.

I just don’t get why people don’t believe this diagnosis and sometimes it makes me want to cry.

Tldr: none of my drs believe in my diagnosis and constantly question me and make me prove my

My boyfriend is probably lying to me and has been for a while.

My therapist and I have talked about it and we both agree he isn’t cheating but I know he isn’t being genuine with me.

He works a lot and keeps telling me over and over he wants to move with my across state but this saga has legit been 3 months of us talking about moving.

I am so angry but mostly tired because I know moving takes a while but it doesn’t take this long.

I am so attached to our relationship that I don’t want to leave but it seems like if he isn’t trying to change then what is the reason to be here?

It hurts me the most because he said he wanted to do therapy with me and keeps “missing” appointments. Like I k

I am off meds but going to see a new psych in a few weeks and considering my options again.

I have been on a lot in the past so looking for into some of the new options best for bpd and anxiety.

I am looking into new careers in my 30’s: starting from a background of education. I am struggling to get started back after taking a year off. Any suggestions for adhd friendly fields? I am also looking into masters programs at this point, I have a background in psychology. Like most of us I love to learn lol!

Tl;dr : adhd friendly career suggestions? Or adhd friendly masters suggestions?

I am 30 and struggling to get my career restarted. My boyfriend has been super helpful and supportive of this pause in my life but I can’t stay paused forever…

What career paths have y’all taken that have helped you in your healing journey? Even the brief ones? I am looking into going back to school but it is kinda overwhelming.

Thanks everyone!

Tldr: any career advice for someone struggling to restart?