Hi all, my partner is at 20 weeks and we're starting to plan for the birth. We had planned on me being the one in the room to advocate for her, but we received some advice recently that as hard as I try, it's unlikely I'll have a sufficiently firm grasp on birthing, different medical interventions, or how the hospital system works to really know what's best. This person recommended hiring a doula, as they're more familiar with everything around birthing.
We've had a bit of a look and haven't found any doulas around us available in December who we can talk to about what exactly they'd offer. I'm wondering if anyone has any experience or perspective on anything related to this that they'd be
